Yes, because Starfire says she wants to have meaningless sex with douchey a-holes who order her around, we're supposed to take it as some sort of female empowerment. This is not Starfire. This is an amnesiac animated love doll. When she's not begging for sex she's standing around in a thong and arching her back in ridiculos positions. It's the worst kind of cheap lowest-common-denominator male fantasy. Lobdell is a hack.
Have you read issues 3 and 4? If you haven't i'd recommend that you do, since they may change your opinion on this new Starfire's portrayal.
If you have, i'd be very interested to know what about the newer issues, leads you to still hold this view.