I wouldn’t want either of those things to happen to me.
I’ve been following Kreesha for quite some time on IG, and I knew she was married, but I didn’t even know that she left him like that. But it seems like she wasn’t happy with the marriage or didn’t actually want to be married. Either that, or maybe something happened between them. Who knows? She likely had dreams and aspirations, and probably felt that being married was holding her back. Whether or not she’s getting it on with Nick is something else, but it obvious that he propelled her career to another level, which is something that her husband wasn’t doing for her. There may not have been a benefit to marrying Quinton, who is an unknown dude. She wanted to more out of life, and because Quinton couldn’t help with that, she bounced. She likely did him a favor, although it sucks. Just my theory on the matter.
Let’s be real here. There is more to marriage than love (it’s more financial than anything), and it takes way more than love to keep it together. I know a lot of people don’t want to hear that shit. But it’s the truth. There has to be a mutual benefit for both parties involved. There are men who do the same thing, too. They’ll be with the same woman for years until their careers are propelled to new heights. Unless their wife or partner are on the same wave, they take off and look for someone who is. There has to be growth for both people in any relationship. Otherwise, one can’t expect things not to fall apart, if they other person chooses to remain stagnant.
On the flip side, I do believe that people should do and accomplish any and everything they want in life before deciding to settle down with someone else. Even after that, there should still be growth all across the board. Work must be done. Period. You don’t just get married and chill. That’s lame.