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@mimisalome Changing personality types and behavior are two different things. I don't really think personality type can change, as it's kind of just what is most natural for your brain. However, you can change your behavior, and there are spectrums to different personalities. I think it's great that you're trying to self improve, however I don't think you can change your personality type, but rather change the way you behave. Basically personality types act as the default for your brain, but you can consciously mold yourself to be a better person.

Eh, I'm pretty sure MBTI test isn't definitive.

Even the experts and the test itself admitted to this.

We have tendencies to be both introvert and extrovert, for example.

I could remember being very social and outgoing as a kid, but then became quite aloof during my teenage years as I became conscious of myself.

As I learn more about what I want with myself and what I can do, (and that most people's opinion aren't really worth of consideration) I started to become more confident in expressing myself socially.

Same goes with my P and J tendencies. I think, I just developed this "perfectionist mindset" as I grew and created this worrisome attitude with regards to failure.

Experience taught me, though, that much of things I worry about happens rarely and I've got things done adequately the first time, if I stick to my plan.

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MBTI test says INTP,

though I'm striving to become INTJ/ENTJ by putting a cap on my analysis time and just taking actions decisively whenever I need to. Also I try to socialize more (which is draining for the I-types).

(INTP is overrated in my opinion - I would not want to work with one to be honest - speaking for myself and personal experience - INTPs are often pessimistic, toxic, and prone to depression)

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1-6?

Probably more, (more like pals than "friends")

I never really care about it, unless they took that extra effort to rub it on my face so I wouldn't miss it.

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I don't understand what's the problem with the question.

Are viners really that sensitive about discussing gay people in hypothetical scenarios?

OT: In practice, I do not readily accept gift from suspicious people (both the effort of their presentation and whatever gender they identify with are irrelevant),

unless I have very little choice of the matter (like when I'm just a new a born baby, and obviously my parents would probably accept those gifts, on my behalf)

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Well it already happened, no use beating myself over it.

At very least that would count as a good news

I mean after years of zero lead in the case, the police actually now have suspect, to hunt.

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Back in highschool, there was this senior girl (two years ahead of me).

She's really pretty (she was a member of the Marjorette/Bugle and Lyre club thing - those girls that wear short skirts and spin batons while marching) and I like her myself, but she was a senior and we never really got acquianted personally, nor we have any moment that we actually talk, we just look at each other from a far.

Her home was about 5 km away, so she always rode the school bus service.

I always walked on my way home (about 2 km from school) we can't afford to pay for a service because we were poor back then.

During the last three months before she graduated, I noticed that she never took the school bus service, instead she would always walk together with me (not really together, more like 10 meters behind me kinda like what a stalker would do).

On the last day, I was a bit late (members of art club had to help the teachers prepare for the graduation ceremony that weekend), and there she was on the nearby store, hanging about.

I don't know if she was waiting for me, but she followed her usual "stalking routine".

I remember that was a really beautiful "golden hour" moment (sunset time) with the occasional cool breeze of the late winter blowing through and ruslting the tall grasses and trees, (the place back then was a bit rural (even though it was suburb) with long empty field of tall grass and trees) and we were the only one walking on that long empty road, no vehicle, no other people.

Both of us were walking in total silence.

I felt like, "time-had-stop" like in those cliche moment in romantic movies.

I never develop any courage to talk to her and that was the last time I saw her in person.

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There were some other moments similar to that, but not as memorable.

One girl was a junior (she never really "stalked" me on my way home - she would just walk passed our classroom whenever she can, to looked at me),

and the other one was a girl from a church who always rode her bike pass in front of our house every afternoon so we can look at each other as she passed by (our house was far from the main road and she lived from another town).

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What "intervention" could I possibly do to save a person who's bleeding to death because both his legs were mangled?

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Bestest Formula 1 season in years ended with thrilling final lap finish

Congratulations to Max Verstappen and Red Bull Racing team.

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The song that you sing to yourself as you grudgingly drag yourself to school/work?

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- Super Mario Land 3 - Warioland (1994 - Gameboy)

- 688 Attack Sub (1991 - Sega Mega Drive)

- P.T.O. Pacific Theater of Operation (1993 - SNES)

- Liberty or Death (1993 - SNES)

- Sid Meier's Colonization (1994 - DOS)