Which one you think is your Personal Traits  ?

Are you a HERO ?  
can you make a decision and live with the consequences , even when you know it's bad one and people might get hurt because it  
          OR
 Are you a SIDEKICK  ?  
do you allowed other people make you decision for you , and constantly worrying you it's the right decision , because if 's it  not you can blame person(s) who made it 
   
The reason I ask this because  we all think if it coming down to it we be the hero we think we are, but when a situation arise are mind go blank and we don't know what  to do until somebody else take charge , an when it 's over we be kicking ourselves because of it  . So I want to know , are you a HERO or a SIDEKICK ?  do you got  what it take ? well , do you