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I know that things are getting harder, but you're not getting smarter.

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@tatsumaki: Everyone you date used to be a baby as well. Would it always be in the back of your mind that they were once a fetus? Or is the actual problem that you would never reach the point where you could look at your partner and accept her a woman?

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@tatsumaki: The thing with that is that it seems incredibly unlikely that you'd ever meet a transperson who would WANT to be your friend. By demoting transpeople to sexual non-options it means you reject and invalidate their gender identity -- while you're free to have your opinion, it just seems incredibly unlikely to me that you'd be in much danger of having a trans friend.

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@joygirl: The way I use troll, isn't mean as a derogatory thing necessarily, but more so asking if he's only saying these things to me riled up, or if he actually means what he's saying, and believes i'm a Nazi........

I agree, I tried to leave, but when I saw that post... I was just baffled.

I'm a little desensitized to that kind of stuff now fortunately, hence by blase initial response, but yeah.

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I like women with vaginas.

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Kidding, of course. I honestly couldn't care less.

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@dum529001:

You sound like a Nazi or a Stalinist. I merely disagree with people. I am not forcing them to change their way of life.

Is Hitler your role model? Do you follow Europe's morally schizophrenic and perverted government officials?

Are you trolling? Dude I've said numerous times I respect your opinion, but your being a bit aggressive. Your being hypocritical, calling me the one who is discriminating your opinion then turn around and call me an automatic NAZI?!?!?!?

I don't like to throw out the "troll" card, but in dum529001's case, I'm starting to think it's the best-case scenario.

Regardless, it doesn't look like you're going to make any headway with him.

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@leo-343 said:

Not finding a particular race attractive isn't racist, that is nonsense.

Never said that either. I said thinking nobody at all could possibly find a race attractive, is racist.

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@joygirl said:

Speaking as a transwoman, this is a pretty tricky subject because I've found that most people can't always uncross the lines that form in their head.

If you want to be in a relationship with someone who can have biological children with you, and your (trans) partner is unable to do that with you, then yes, you're well within your rights to try to find a different partner that better fits your desires -- the same way you would if your partner was cisgender but naturally barren/sterile. That doesn't make your partner any less of a man or woman, but it may mean that you aren't compatible.

No one chooses to be barren.

People choose to believe they are transgender.

A man and woman being together is still a good example for upcoming couples. Eventually children get a house of their own and leave mom and dad with more alone time when they are not visiting.

Last time I checked, no one on earth is strong enough to have unlimited babies and yet people still manage to realize the biological truth that the human race comes in two modes, male and female, and reproduction comes from that.

The human community is based on men and woman getting together, raising up children, working together and helping other groups of couples which are made up of people they live among. This is what the human "family" is.

People's opinion and feelings does not change biology and basic facts of life.

People can say they want to be a cat, a duck, a plane or want identify themselves as bird. Guess what? That does not make it true.

...Whoa.

Just.

Whoa.

You are... next-level, dude.

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@leo-343 said:
@joygirl said:
@the-seeffiss17 said:

@joygirl: This is in no way meant to offend, I have the utmost support for you and commend you for being open with who you are, especially online with the trolls.

But how does not wanting to have sex with a transgender person make you prejudice?

He didn't say "I wouldn't want to have sex with a transgender person." I'm okay with that. Everyone can do whatever they please.

When you say "I can't think of a single person who would have sexual contact with a transgender person," that is seriously immensely messed up. Try replacing that sentence with "black" and see if it sounds racist to you.

Ah, I see. I apologise when you put it like that.

Accepted. :)

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@leo-343 said:
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Lol, can't think of anyone who would have sexual contact with a transgender if they know they used to have a d!ck or vagina. It's not harsh or transphobic it's just the truth. Sure I'll be friends with a transgender, I'm not prejudice, but having one as a partner and therefore having sex with, would never happen in a million years.

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Is it though? Serious question, it's transphobic of me not feeling comfortable with sexual contact with a transgender?

It's not transphobic for you to feel uncomfortable about it. It's transphobic to believe that everyone should feel uncomfortable, and also untrue.