I don't believe in regret. I fear changing even the slightest thing in my past as it might take away the things from my present that I value the most. And yet I have wishes.
I don't think you should seriously look, at any age, at all
Let things happen organically. Get to know people you find interesting. Accept that platonic relationships have as much to offer and to teach us, and are a reward rather than a consolation prize.
Be there for yourself, develop yourself, pursue your interests and engage actively with your life. Then if something romantic does grow from a close relationship, you are bringing your best self to the table.
I know how you feel. I have a mole on my cheek that I used to be super self conscious about. Plus a lot of scars on my arms. I think there comes a point where you can make peace with yourself and accept that these things make you unique and tell the story of your life. They aren't good or bad they're just you, a part of who you are. Anyone else who can't get past it or judges it negatively is someone you don't need in your life
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