Discussions on Brides
Talking to an RN (Registered Nurse?), and I was doing what I do best, getting her to open up to me. In short, she's going through a divorce with her husband. The reason why? He doesn't support her. Read that again. He doesn't support her. He hates that she has a business of her own.
Another one of those simple things, that if a guy took notice, and followed through, he would have brides falling into his lap. Every single girl that I have been seriously involved with has stuck with me through thick & thin simply because I am a very supportive guy.
I'm not going to go into too many details about this woman's life, but I just wanted to point out that there are a lot of men out there that don't support brides, and are afraid of their manhood being violated if she becomes more successful than he is. You guys have to get over that little petty bullshit.
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Moving on, I had an interesting discussion with another woman. I believe she had her graduate degree in a field that I happen to be interested in. Doing what I do, I began the process of getting her to reveal her past and what she was about. What this woman had to say has probably changed my life, and caused me to take things into consideration that I haven't before.
I believe that most guys focus so much on getting laid, that they forget that brides do have some interesting insights and life experiences that guys may not hear because they're so focused on themselves. The very fact that I invited the woman to talk about herself, alone was enough to cause her to become interested in me, my name, and my interests.
One of the secrets to brides, is that if you give without focusing on your own self interests, they will become open to what you have to say. In other words, what good is your "game" if it falls upon deaf ears?
Next up? Appleface's friend. Hands down? She is a perfect ten, and I call very few brides that. And the only reason I'm not attracted to her whatsoever, is simply because she's not my type (She's an Asian girl, and you all know that I pretty much steer away from Asian brides).
My point of bringing her up? I was talking to her when we ran into each other, and I realized that this girl wouldn't be hard to win over at all, IF one condition occurred. What is that? IF you were able to penetrate her social circle.
Many gurus and players downplay the importance of social circles, but if I were to emphasize one essential skill over all others with brides, it is the importance of locking down social skills that allow you to weave in and out of various social circles.
I look at some of the hottest brides I've dated and slept with, and I asked myself why most of my friends didn't have access to these types of brides. And it was simply because although I'm a quiet guy, my social skills are highly advanced. Give it a little time, and it won't take long before I find something that I have in common with a particular group of people. At which point, I open up the humor floodgate, and begin winning over the brides within that social circle.
I remember in one instance, where I went to a sorority party, and other than my date, I didn't know anyone there. Before I left, everyone knew who I was, and I remember a comment by one girl saying something along the lines of "We were all looking at you, wondering who that cute guy was." The attraction isn't necessarily physical, but when you're the type of guy that everyone is talking about, brides become attracted to you.
The point is, a woman's highest value, are their friends and social circle, so if it looks like you don't fit in, of course they're not going to give you the time of day. If you can win over their friends, then you've won them over. Of course there are exceptions, but I'm generally speaking.
Changing the subject to sex. I let go of a girl awhile ago, yet she keeps talking to me. Finally, I asked her if she hated me so much, why does she even bother talking to me. Her reply? I was the best sex she's ever had. Ego aside, it shows the power you can have over a woman if you're incredible in bed. When it comes to sex, brides tend to stick with the sure thing, and aren't willing to let it go so easily.