Would You Be Angry If You Caught Your GF/Wife Having Sex with Another Woman?

Or if you're a woman, it could be your husband or boyfriend doing it with another man.

Watch this commercial first. Just because. Heheh.

I mean, unless it turns into a threesome on the spot, yeah - I'd be pretty damn enraged.

If I didn't know about it I would probably be upset.

Whats funny is that this is a real possibility for me because my GF (not wife though) is bisexual

And then you find out that she is a lesbian and doesn't really love you, So she demands a divorce and you never see her again, Now you are single parent and the kids cry every day for their mommy.

If she cheated on me with a woman, it won't take long before she's [with some guy] when I leave her alone. In fact I would probaly leave her if we ever had to be apart for more than a day.

I can't into trusting people.

Transfer as much money as I can out of the joint account;, be brutally honest about their mother cheating to the kids; shame her to her friends, family, and online; then divorce. Then from that point on, notify all of her future partners about her infidelity. Watch the trainwreck unfold.

Scorched Earth is the only option.

Polyamory has its advantages sometimes.

Obviously.

Lol cuck.

cheating is cheating

@removekebab said:

What? But it's the true, though.

My husband also doesn't seem affected at all and we actually agreed and even talked about it before taking further steps.

Not angry, but I'd be like wtf?

LMAO.

What's the point of getting married if you're not going to stay true to each other? This is some degenerate stuff man.

@removekebab said:

Many motives, some which are even legal and we still love each other at the end of the day. It's not like we both go around finding new people all time, but I would say our relationship is an open one even after marrying.

Yup.

Yes, I will be pretty mad. I mean why wouldn't she invite me to join the fun.

@laylah: as I said, that's kind of degenerate.

But to each their own. It's your life, as long as you're contributing well enough for your society you can do what you want.

Yeah

I'd ask could I join. Her answer dictates if I'm angry or not.

@removekebab said:

And that's enough for me.

Yes, I don't like sharing

I don't think she meant for you to take that seriously haha.

@crash_ said:

But I'm being serious, though. Everything I said is true.

meh i don't need anyone anyway

I don't know, part of me may want to take part in such a threesome, but I would also be pissed at knowing that I can't trust her again. Maybe I would take part in such threesome, maybe not, but what I know for sure is that I would break-up with that girlfriend immedietly afterwards, because I can't be in a relationship with a girl I can't trust.

They are being true to one another. They're not lying. Not doing it behind each other's back. Not cheating. So they ARE being true to each other. Plus, what authority said that "marriage has to be monogamous "? I've always thought that monogamy is a LEARNED BEHAVIOR. Not a natural behavior.

@willpaytonYou're a science nerd (: In your studies is monogamy learned or natural behavior?

Room for 3 more and make it a real party ?

After the boner and nice images, I'd be pissed.

@p00ty:

I've always thought that monogamy is a LEARNED BEHAVIOR. Not a natural behavior.

Depends what you mean. Early humans originally had social monogamy, but not sexual monogamy, as males wanted to produce as many offspring as they could. As women were more spread out, and children needed to be raised, sexual and social monogamy started to coincide, as it gives offspring the best chance to survive and thrive. Sexual monogamy is something humans adopted over time, as it makes the sexual partner more likely to stay and care for the offspring, appose the social partner who may not want to tend to another person's offspring. Sexual & social fathers would also hunt for meat/protein for their young, which might be why humans have bigger brains, appose to other primates. Both polygamy and monogamy can be considered natural, as monogamy wasn't really taught. Humans in a sense evolved to be sexually monogamous, but some people are still sexually polygamous to this day.

There's noting wrong with monogamy or polygamy, but it's not true in saying monogamy isn't natural.

yeah

In all honestly, Yeah, I'd be pissed. Sure, there's a part of me that would find it attractive, but it's still cheating assuming we never discussed that kind of thing beforehand.

betrayal is betrayal

If boob mine, no tolrate. Easy say forgive but hard life. So live it alone if she betreyed me.

Yes. Especially if the other chick isn't attractive.

Yes

@beaconofstrength: I can't receive notifications but I'll respond if I see your post.

In post 15 the user was talking about marriage and staying true to each other in marriage. I believe that mindset is learned. Learned through tradition and religion. Being sexually monogamous is a choice. A natural one. So I agree with you on that. But being monogamous because you are married seems to be a learned tradition.

Yeah, the only thing that'd be different in this case is that I'd be in shock that it wasn't a man and maybe I wouldn't go absolutely ballistic in anger. It's still the same though. She went behind your back, cheating on you, betraying your trust and undermining the entire relationship. The trust cannot be built again. It's over.

Of course I'm talking about a standard monogamous relationship. Obviously, if we had agreed to letting a third partner (being a woman) involved beforehand and had talked about it. Then there'd be no problem, as long as it wasn't secretive, I wasn't left out or it didn't involve a man. The chances of this situation arising would probably be very little though and I don't even know if I would go through with it given the chance. Too risky.

@silkyballfro94: So adding a third person would only be possible if it were a woman?

What if you requested a woman and she allowed it to make you happy. Wouldn't you allow her a man if it was a fantasy of hers?

@p00ty: Yes to the first question.

I probably wouldn't even request or ask for something like that. I would hope she asks me, but wouldn't count on it or wait for it. If we were to ever agree on something like that, then I would plainly state that there would be no possibility of a doing something like that with a man. I would not move on it. I would never be comfortable with that and I expect her to do the same with me, if she felt uncomfortable doing that kinda thing with a woman. Anyway, this is just hypothetical stuff. I don't even have a girlfriend right now and this has never happened to me.

@silkyballfro94: I've seen responses similar to yours many times. Some women are cool with inviting another female. But very FEW men are OK with inviting a male. I understood that. If my girl understands that I might want another woman. I should understand that she might want another man.

But stay single and just remain a "poon hound". A term from Workaholics meaning a playa

@p00ty: I agree. Adam is my favorite character on Workaholics. NOICE.

My relationship is not elitist, anyone can join! ^_^

@mysticmedivh: No but I once caught my ex doing it & despite me being "more than cool with it" she was freaking out crying & apologizing & no matter what I said to her I couldn't seem to get it through to her that she had done nothing wrong as far as I was concerned.

i would jump on them

That's cool i guess ":P.

Something wrong with me if that happen then .

Yes. If she did it without permission

I'd absolutely take issue with it.