Why do some girls tend to manipulative?

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Poll Why do some girls tend to manipulative? (9 votes)

Yea, she's the biggest red flag 44%
Can't blame her though 22%
That's what they are 22%
That's why we don't simp 11%

There is a public figure here, his ex-girlfriend blabbed everything to the media after they broke up, she even slandered him, did illegal things like being involved in prostitution, using illegal drugs etc, after the girl got what she wanted she dumped him but made a twist so as if he was in the wrong so he took all the blame, many fans cornered the poor guy until his career faded.. what do you think?

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@maderflame: I suspect that this is far more complicated than what you’ve put here. If this is in the public domain then cite your source because it sounds like all the other ‘red pill’ women are bad statements that occasionally blow through here.

As such it needs fact checking before further comment.

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you mean people right? This a people thing, not a girl thing

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#3  Edited By RudyGiuliani
@steve40l said:

you mean people right? This a people thing, not a girl thing

While it's true that both sexes can manipulate each other, it often tends to be done by women far more than the other way around. This is because:

1. Men are more naturally trusting of women, and believe women at face value; see the campaign "believe all women". While, women are often more defensive towards men and tend to be skeptical about a man's words or intention. Part of this reason is often due to media influence, whereby, men are painted very often as villains, while women are painted in more virtuous roles. Also, biologically, men are bigger and stronger, and this gives a false sense of confidence to not see women as a threat. While, women are very aware of men's physical advantage and are on guard more often.

2. Halo Effect often obscures us from the fact that we are being manipulated. In general, men tend to like women a lot more than women like men; this in turn leads less women to fall for manipulation of men. Also given that men can easily fall for a woman's looks, it means guys often overlook or ignore the fact that they are being manipulated. This is most evident when we see how many men are manipulated by OF's, escort and camgirls, who pretend to give them the illusion of intimacy as long as they keep sending them money.

3. Manipulation of men is often culturally enforced thanks to traditional values. Men are often told that they need to work to earn a woman, while women are told that they are the prize that must select the best man. This narrative means that men often go out of their way to do favors for women in order to win women over. This results in many women using men to help make their lives easy in life and at work. When it comes to actual dating, men are told that paying for the first date is the proper thing to do, which results in a lot of women using men for free meals. For example, there was a story in 2023, where an Asian woman was able to save 3 years on Groceries because she went out on dates with men for free meals.

4. Manipulation of men often goes unpunished, whether it be actual criminal charges or social shaming. Many girls for example, manipulate nice guys by pretending to show romantic and sexual interest in them. Often, these nice guys are men that lack confidence and don't ask women out right away, but instead feel a girl out before building up enough courage to ask her out. In the interim, women will ask for favors, help and often give the guy all the duties of a boyfriend with none of the actual benefits. And when said guy ask her out, and she rejects him, he is painted as an asshole for not continuing to give her special treatment or lashing out at her for manipulating him.

For example, 1 month ago on X, a story circulated about a 21M who was friends with a 21F in college. Both of them had the same friend's group, and when they all finished hanging out, he would walk her back to her dorm at night before walking all the way back to his place. He claimed that he did this unconsciously for her. One day, he asked her out, and she rejected him. When they hanged out with their friends, she began to notice that he no longer would walk her back to his place. She confronted him one day asking why he stopped, and he responded by saying it was too tiring and he couldn't do it anymore.

Now, when the story hit the internet, the woman responded by claiming he was a FAKE NICE GUY, that was manipulating her and he should have continued to keep walking her home even after she rejected him. Many men sided with the woman, with minority of men understanding why he stopped giving her special treatment and being more empathetic to him.

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Women tend to have a much easier time manipulating men than vice versa, especially the most attractive of women. It's no surprise that many take advantage of that.

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@rudygiuliani: Most of what you said is true. It however, is clearly focused on a target, which makes sense, but is ultimately unconvincing. People are often times manipulative, but you can't blanket that onto a gender, because there are a multitude of examples of men being more manipulative. Everything from the "nice guy" to the one threatening self harm. Ultimately, bad people exist, or even people who are usually fine, but will take full advantage of someone. What it seems to me here is that you've sympathized with those who are more like you, and so overtly villainized the "other side", making women out to be more manipulative, even though the way you write about it makes it seem like you're not directly blaming them.

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Women tend to have a much easier time manipulating men than vice versa, especially the most attractive of women. It's no surprise that many take advantage of that.

Pretty much this ^

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that's a good question

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"Some"???

LOL

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Because boys are simps

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#10  Edited By MasterBuster666

Some women may have taken their rights for granted as well as feeling entitled to them......

There's a reason why gender equality exists.

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#11  Edited By arctika

@ Maevis, Not all Guys are simps and a dude doesn't have to be a simp for a girl to be manipulative and toxic...it's no wonder more women are making vids crying about being single now days on tik tok. Besides, guys only simp for OF 304 types, both kinds of people aren't exactly top quality.

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#12  Edited By Lunacyde  Moderator

People in general can be manipulative. This can stem from a lot of different biological and social factors. I don't think it's helpful to generalize, each person's experience is different and the factors impacting their level of manipulativeness are unique.

Manipulativeness is also a spectrum for humans, you aren't just manipulative or not, there are varying degrees and we are all manipulative at points in our lives.

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That bald mf really ruined y'all heads.

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Anyone can be manipulative. It's really not that hard.

Just get someone to like and depend on you(even if you don't give a damn about them) and use them to your advantage. You can discard them whenever you've gotten all you needed from them. Move on to another one if need be.

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@steve40l said:

you mean people right? This a people thing, not a girl thing

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The only reason why you think its just women manipulating you is because you want something from them, you'll be surprised to find out just how many people of both sexes are tryna make a fool out of you rn. Gotta grow up man.

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it's hardwired into their DNA because they don't have the physical power to counter men so they have to survive using mind games

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Yes, both genders are manipulative, but women indeed are more so for the reasons this person provided:

@nohoour said:

it's hardwired into their DNA because they don't have the physical power to counter men so they have to survive using mind games

That and the one advantage women have over men is that they can seduce them easier than men can seduce women on average. Male simping is a huge problem to the point societies bend to catering to women these days beyond any reasonable level. Their manipulation isn't even impressive usually. It doesn't need to be because it's that easy to play on men's sexual urges. And in terms of many modern societies, they back women by default.