Santa, except not for the traditional reasons.
Depending on your parenting style, Santa actually makes for a pretty good learning experience for your child, in regards to critical thinking and skepticism, and questioning ideas. On a larger societal scale. You don't want to mislead them too much, but if they have peers that will believe, and you always want Christmas traditions, you can be more neutral and pay attention to their attitude and questions about Santa. Note. This only really works if you pay attention to them a lot. Plus, obviously aren't trying to parent from a hard authority role. Also this doesn't always work, I have heard (but can't really affirm the validity) that autistic children, can often be less receptive to being lied to about Christmas. Think I read that from David Kyle Johnson, a philosophy professor, who, incidentally has a book about this The Myths that Stole Christmas, but I think he is more opposed to the idea of Santa.
Oh also, I suppose Boogeyman could be used the same way, but I think fear is a harder intuitive feeling for children to overcome, and so the risks of long term, deep seeded insecurities and trust issues may exist for longer without any of the benefits from overcoming such anxieties/worries.
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