What’s worse: catching your partner watching porn or catching your partner on a dating app?

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Poll What’s worse: catching your partner watching porn or catching your partner on a dating app? (60 votes)

Catching your partner watching porn 5%
Catching your partner on a dating app 87%
They’re equally bad 8%

Me and my lady partner are having an argument about this.

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This is dumb.

Porn is for masterbation, Dating app is for cheating.

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#2  Edited By bruhmoment6

I think its pretty obvious

I dont care and i dont know why i an posting this

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Second option

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It's simple, check with your SO before diving into porn. No argument needed!

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It's simple, check with your SO before diving into porn. No argument needed!

She’s okay with me watching it with her or when she’s not home. She just got all mad cuz I did it while she was laying next to me asleep. She was all like “why didn’t you wake me up?? You’d rather look at those woman than have sex with me?? You’re not attracted to me! 😭😭😭”

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This is dumb.

Porn is for masterbation, Dating app is for cheating.

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Lol kinda of a weird question but I dig it. It’s easily the dating app.

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App.

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Definitely the dating app.

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Dating app. This might be the biggest mismatch I’ve ever seen, no exaggeration.

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Here's a better question. How would you find out she's on a dating app? Invade her privacy?

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Dating app. This might be the biggest mismatch I’ve ever seen, no exaggeration.

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Once a cheater. Always a cheater

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^^^This guy knows his own stuff.

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^^^This guy knows his own stuff.

My dad and mom say the same shit lol.

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Yeah they say if my wife cheats on me.

I should never forgive her or take her back.

Cause she will do it over and over and over again

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Once a cheater. Always a cheater

who hurt you, man? Cuz it's really not true.

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@chimeroid: No one. It's just the truth.

People don't change because they want to change, people change because they have to change and will revert back to old habits if given the chance. Surely you wouldn't take back a cheating ex will you?

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dating app. no question.

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the dating app

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#24  Edited By KillianDuclark

Depends on the type of porn I catch your watching.

Stuff like same sex porn would be kind of weird for what I thought was my straight girlfriend.

My reaction would he even worse for nasty stuff like PC, scat etc.

But overall it all depends on your explanation. You can have a perfectly reasonable explanation for using a dating app

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This is dumb.

Porn is for masterbation, Dating app is for cheating.

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Dating website.

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@chimeroid: No one. It's just the truth.

People don't change because they want to change, people change because they have to change and will revert back to old habits if given the chance. Surely you wouldn't take back a cheating ex will you?

Dude, did you ever hear about the concept of "growth"? It happens to all the people in the world. If you think you are the same person you were 10 years ago, you are either wrong, or a really poor example of a human being. People change priorities, they change their tastes, they change beliefs. Your attitude just sounds like you are a tween that feels like 3 years is "forever".

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Dating app obviously. TF kind of question is this to ask?

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@chimeroid: Like I said. People don't change because they WANT to change. They change because they HAVE to change. That's a fact of life.

People change priorities, they change their tastes, they change beliefs.

They change because they have to. If everyone was immortal and suffered no consequences for their actions, no one would change. Father time, the biological clock and social stigma has a way of forcing people to change, don't kid yourself. When given an opportunity, a former cheater would cheat on the same partner again. The best thing that partner could do is kick the cheater to the curb and not look back.

Serious question. If your best friend did something utterly egregious to a member of your family say to your mother, wife or daughter, would you ever trust them again even if they apologized and "promised" to change?

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#31  Edited By SheevSmacker

Dating app solos

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Remember fellas. All her secrets can be found on her phone.

If she starts suspiciously hiding her phone or turning it face down, she has something to hide from you. In other words, your days are practically numbered.

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Why is this thread being entertained

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#34  Edited By CocaColaMan

I don't support watching porn but if someone's on a dating app while "happily" dating that has next to no merits

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#35 Lunacyde  Moderator

Dating App is worse, by quite a bit.

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Dating App, come on now

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@chimeroid: Like I said. People don't change because they WANT to change. They change because they HAVE to change. That's a fact of life.

People change priorities, they change their tastes, they change beliefs.

They change because they have to. If everyone was immortal and suffered no consequences for their actions, no one would change. Father time, the biological clock and social stigma has a way of forcing people to change, don't kid yourself. When given an opportunity, a former cheater would cheat on the same partner again. The best thing that partner could do is kick the cheater to the curb and not look back.

Serious question. If your best friend did something utterly egregious to a member of your family say to your mother, wife or daughter, would you ever trust them again even if they apologized and "promised" to change?

I don't feel like taking this discussion much further, for 2 reasons.

1. You are very emotional

2. Your arguments are VERY stupid.

You decided to make this perosnal, but saying that people don't change... If my best friend told me that he USED TO BE an asshole 10 years ago, i wouldn't care, because i know him now. So yes, people do change. Heck, i was much more of an asshole 10 years ago then i am today and nothing forced me. People just grow.

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@straight-fire said:

Dating app obviously. TF kind of question is this to ask?

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Really would like to hear an argument for porn. lol

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#40  Edited By iknowwhoyouare

@chimeroid:

If my best friend told me that he USED TO BE an asshole 10 years ago, i wouldn't care, because i know him now. So yes, people do change. Heck, i was much more of an asshole 10 years ago then i am today and nothing forced me. People just grow.

Actions =/= Words. You just completely avoid the question. You know damn well what I'm asking you.

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Watching porn isn't cheating but actively looking for hook ups definitely is.

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@chimeroid:

If my best friend told me that he USED TO BE an asshole 10 years ago, i wouldn't care, because i know him now. So yes, people do change. Heck, i was much more of an asshole 10 years ago then i am today and nothing forced me. People just grow.

Actions =/= Words. You just completely avoid the question. You know damn well what I'm asking you.

And you know damn well that the passage of time makes a huge difference. So yeah, i would reunite with an ex that cheated on me, given that enough time has passed. When we're teens our Hormones run wild and we act differently. WE can be more aggressive and turn to physical violence on a whim, we can be more horny and fail to deny ourselves sexual pleasures. Yeah, people grow.

Of course, you can imagine a scenario where someone does something unforgiveable, but that has nothing to do with your asinine claim that "once a cheater, always a cheater" it's untrue, comes from a kid with no life experience, and it's just reeks of salt. And, if you don't speak from personal "trauma" then you are just an incel, making it even worse.

So, as i said, no interest in continuing this discussion.

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simps everywhere

@factg found some new hunting grounds for you

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@chimeroid: Like it or not, your past matters. That's why criminal records exist. Some job applications have background checks. No one needs to go through personal trauma to understand something when you can observe it in others.

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Dating app

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Honestly seeing your partner on a porn app, is bad, but not that bad you could be watching to gain knowledge about how to do "sex"

Dating app is worse.