I think the main issue with swear words is more to do with peoples general inability to explain certain ideas well, with depth and nuance and context, and so we give certain ideas more weight than necessary, because traditionally we gave them more weight than necessarily, as well as certain special properties, around them being taboo and immoral.
I can explain to my lil sister, that I am okay with her swearing around me, but that there will be some situations in her life, where others may not be as tolerable, and they unfairly judge, discriminate or hold her use of language against her. How its important to learn why and how such people exist, and why she may opt to be more careful with her language around them. Take her school for example. I want her to get a good education, might not happen if her school or teachers have strict anti swearing policies. Its more complex naturally, but for brevity sake.
So then she might and has had questions for me, and I usually have really good answers already prepared, and if I don't, I'll try and learn the best answers, but yeah... in contrast, my parent taught me... swearing is wrong. Why is it wrong? Because they said so. Also don't question their authority again. Which is basically what my parent parents taught her, and so on. They weren't linguistic experts, or well educated on history, or society. They were very nice and considerate people, and occasionally they gave me ice cream, and I love them for that, but eh... behavior and what was okay and not okay, was mostly just because of authority and not understanding. Its also why most of them would actually start to swear a lot when they got drunk in older years... its not like they actually believed swearing was wrong... they just didn't want their 9 year old nephew swearing at Church on Sunday giving the family a bad reputation... and its just easier to tell someone the reason they shouldn't do something is just 'because'.
Movies that children can see, probably shouldn't have swearing in them in the sense... swearing is usually emphasized a certain way, naturally... so if this occurred 'organically' in a movie, kids would probably pick up on it, and kids are dumb, and prone to stupid behavior like repeating a word over and over again loudly, and I don't think a lot of parents would be able to deal... many would... but because the ones that can't, well... same could be said for websites, some people could use swear words in mature, contextually appropriate ways... others use it to spam insults with caps lock, to try and antagonize or rile up people. If I somehow magically ran CV, I would change the rules to allow swearing, but I'd probably be way less tolerant of certain other behaviors, but hey. For a website with a 'younger' base, maybe a more general generic rule is appropriate.
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