Is it considered slutty if the Woman hits on the Guy or is it Tradition for the Guy to hit on the Girl?

If women would hit on men more often life would be a lot easier

Its not slutty but the male usually is the agressor. Its acceptable for the female to do it though. Depending on how she does it.

Of course it normally isn't. But if a girl walks up to a guy and goes "hey baby, can I blow you? (bless her sweet heart)" Well then that's a different story.

I would be sooo happy.

its always acceptable for a female to hit on a guy and they way they do it is similar the way guys do it. rarity is vulgar/aggressive, most is flirting(compliments and body language) and some going unnoticed.

For the former-- obviously not. If you want something, then go for it.

For the latter-- yes, it's quite commonplace, but it's not like it has to be that way.

@jaken7:

But if a girl walks up to a guy and goes "hey baby, can I blow you?

This girl should be treasured.

A paragon of humanity. As I said, "bless her sweet heart."

@jaken7: lol I love that meme :) poor little butters(wait is that butters?) Or the arrogant blond kid?

lol Ditto!

Arrogant blonde kid, Craig. He hates pretty much everything.

I'm not saying anything about the question but... when would Wonder Woman ever need to hit on guys? To be honest she should be a lot more swarmed than she is in comics.

Why should we? We have men coming to us.

For starters men would love for girls to initiate the chase. Women act like if you dont say something about it then she shouldnt which is dumb

It isn't slutty, it's just efficient. Saves both parties time.

If any guy thinks a woman is a slut if she hits on him first, that guy needs to get slapped around.

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Ok, I'll leave now...

*runs away while being ashamed*

@wolverine08: That.... makes it better somehow.

Girls still don't approach guys. They're too shy.

Some girls aren't shy, though their tone and overconfidence scares me. Back up woman!

Don says the girl should pursue the guy

I'm glad nobody's stupid enough to pick the first answer.

@jaken7: Don't be ashamed!

Wolvie's gifs always make everything better.

@jaken7 said:

@cloakx14 said:

@mr_clockwork91 said:

@jonny_anonymous said:

If women would hit on men more often life would be a lot easier

I would be sooo happy.

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@jaken7: Oh yeah ok haha the emo blond kid who is always complaining. My fault, I have to stop getting him confused with Butters lol.

haha good answer. I like this dude. Seems to call things how it is.

Hey, congrats the first female to post here! Well, to answer your question I think it would help with the mental games. Not all women, but I've noticed some act as if men are "psychics" we are not sadly. So telling us directly you're interested helps :) sometimes lol.

I suppose this is the main reason why girls stress looking good perhaps more than guys do. ie make up, dressing sexy etc.

@vaeternus: not you but wouldn't you think men, maybe most, would see an approaching woman interested in immediate sex?

Boom. Correct answer.

Honestly, it depends on the scenario. I've been with friends in the past, at bars etc girls eyeing myself or friends(mostly my friends cause honestly the bar gig isn't my game at all) and turns out they weren't into them at all. They'll talk for hours, maybe pull a number at most. Or I've been in a situation where once two drunk chicks came up to me, one staggering and stuttering saying "hey, hey you're cute want to talk to me I...I...I dont wanna throw up"

Like ok...lol the other one was just laughing, I pretty much went to the men's room for a half hour til they were gone lol.

Perhaps a poor example, but this other time with same two friends we went to this jersey shore place outdoors and omg the girls there are so shallow...lol one blond, cute was flirting with my friend for an hour. He offered to buy her about 4 or 5 drinks roughly, got NOTHING out of it. Not even a number...she told him because we were near watching, "she'd be right back after flirting, talking to him for like 2 hours" she went to the bathroom(one of many there) then left him waiting there for like an hour, few hours later we left we saw her again talking to a few other guys. Twit was probably mooching guys for free drinks(having no intention of numbers, dating or sex) so no I wouldn't say most men. Unless the girl is direct and says "I want you, or I want to bang you..you down"? Otherwise, a lot of them play head games or have ulterior motive. He was smiling at her but she walked over to him(clearly not looking for sex but was as flirty as you can get)

Keep in mind, I'm also going my own past experiences and obervations. My are NYC/NJ area is VERY shallow, and women here are rather strange at times. It's not like down south or nice country girls that are normal, more direct hell they're into mud sports....lol.

Depends on the culture really.

In my case, I do consider it slutty. If I want to start a family, I want my wife to be pure and untouched because she will carry my children.

Before somebody screams double standard, would you want you or your child to experience a total stranger walking at you and say, "Hey a banged your mother/wife before and its just not me but the whole football team".

dude, all you're sayin' is you'd rather not know she banged the whole football team.

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@OverLordArhas said:

Depends on the culture really.

In my case, I do consider it slutty. If I want to start a family, I want my wife to be pure and untouched because she will carry my children.

Before somebody screams double standard, would you want you or your child to experience a total stranger walking at you and say, "Hey a banged your mother/wife before and its just not me but the whole football team".

Like I said, depends on the culture, you may find it funny but to us it is serious business.

and it only applies to the girl I want to marry not the one I played around with. ;p

You do not get the point do you. It is something culturally innate to us. We put the highest regards to our mother/wife and they expected to match it.

@OverLordArhas said:

@wolverine08 said:

@OverLordArhas said:

Depends on the culture really.

In my case, I do consider it slutty. If I want to start a family, I want my wife to be pure and untouched because she will carry my children.

Before somebody screams double standard, would you want you or your child to experience a total stranger walking at you and say, "Hey a banged your mother/wife before and its just not me but the whole football team".

Like I said, depends on the culture, you may find it funny but to us it is serious business.

and it only applies to the girl I want to marry not the one I played around with. ;p

@dimitridkatsis said:

@OverLordArhas said:

Depends on the culture really.

In my case, I do consider it slutty. If I want to start a family, I want my wife to be pure and untouched because she will carry my children.

Before somebody screams double standard, would you want you or your child to experience a total stranger walking at you and say, "Hey a banged your mother/wife before and its just not me but the whole football team".

dude, all you're sayin' is you'd rather not know she banged the whole football team.

You do not get the point do you. It is something culturally innate to us. We put the highest regards to our mother/wife and they expected to match it.

You do not get the point, these cultural standards are destined to fail us. We need sexual liberation to achieve intellectual progress which leads to utopia. In 100 years people will be sharing themseleves without worries and every person does that today helps humanity make a step forward.

@OverLordArhas: I wouldn't really want to have kids with a virgin personally.

I live in New York born and raised, with a college stay in SC and MIA, I don't find the woman shallow. I find them to be girls, they come in different accents. I understand your stories but your mind went to if she's not interested she must be playing games, with sex being the only clear way to so she's interested. we don't know her motives, she could have been letting your friend down easy with a excuse that keeps his ego intact and meet another guy on a night out at a bar. or she could have been getting free drinks.

I'm reading, I'm thinking guys would expect an approaching woman to get straight to the point of sucking you d*ck in a elevator. its great fantasy and when you can make it happen amazing but everyone has agendas and woman are no exceptions. some play nice games others friend their way into sex.

@kasino: What part of NY? I've lived here my entire life,(NYC) S.I. and NJ women are very shallow to me vs down south or other parts of NY even.

Not quite though, I just have had bad luck. I had one girl play games with me for years, then asked me to hook her up with one of my friends....and yes this is after she knew I liked her. That's not wrong at all right? lol

My friend lived in upstate NY, said girls there are nicer then his experience in NYC(city girls) I tend to agree more with that.

If a girl is aggressive and wants to hit on me, to that I say "f*ckin' A!!". Less work I have to do. Doesn't make her a slut.

@dimitridkatsis:

Logically speaking, that is suicide. The human population is as bloated as it is, doing so will only deplete our already scarce resources faster.

And what kind of intellectual liberation will you get if we all act as horny monkeys. ;p

OMG! I'm acting out of character.

:)

Girls hit on me all the time, it's not normal?

I don't mean breeding, sex is fun and good for the brain.... you ever had any?

@jaken7: Thanks for the assist on the meme!

@vaeternus: grew up in brooklyn now live in the bronx. work in manhattan. I know absolute zero of upstate new york, they have commercials now is all i got.

I'm not great with woman but I'm ok and i never make intentions unclear. i don't blame them went i don't get what i want. when they hit on me I look it at as a invite to show how well you fish.

Their is no baseline for this. It is entirely dependent on culture, in England, women flirt with men and initiate relationships more than men I've found.

@dimitridkatsis:

Moderation dude. Anything in excess is not as beneficial.

If you do not pick your partner well you may find yourself contracting STD to say the least.

It's considered slutty if you drop your panties/boxers for anyone. Flirting isn't really that big. You're ultimately judged by your actions

The reason why this opinion exist is as I see it because the women are getting pregnant and not men. It is the women's job to choose the best mate because she will (or cause of technology can) and this will (or again rather can because of technology) lead to a child. That problem is not a problem for the guy (well it can financially) but in a biological sense it is only the womens problem. Because of the nature is unequal about mating then the views will be it to.