Does everyone cheat on their boyfriend/girlfriend?

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#1  Edited By Static Shock

I have a friend that claims everyone cheats on their boyfriend/girlfriend, and honestly believes this is a fact (despite there being no proof on his account). This is because he cheats on his girlfriend, who is several miles away at another college. I assume he's a bit insecure about this, so he claims everyone does it to hide his guilt. And, I know his girlfriend as well, but she doesn't know, let alone suspect anything. As much as he stresses this, I never agree with him. I think that everyone is capable of cheating, but not everyone cheats. When I say this, he tells me I'm being naive and oblivious... LOL. He says everyone cheats as if it's unconscious decision everyone makes; that everyone just cheats for the hell of it; that everyone lets the idea of cheating think for them. How can this be?

I think that everyone is capable of cheating, but not everyone cheats. There are people out there that truly care for their partners enough to stay faithful. And, I can admit, there are times when you can't really tell if your partner is cheating you. Because if they say they aren't, there's a chance they could be lying. But since many people won't come up front about it, it's sometimes best to find out the truth for yourself. And there's nothing wrong with finding out the truth.

I honestly feel that there are just as many people that cheat as there are that don't cheat. For those that say yes, there are those that say no. On the idea of it all, it normally depends on the person you're with, but I don't wanna go into detail about it yet... So, do you think everyone cheats, or have you cheated or been cheated on before?

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#2  Edited By T.J. Magnum

i havn't and never been cheated on

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#3  Edited By Kiara_Sullivan

Not cheated on a boyfriend. Never will.. Been cheated on though...

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#4  Edited By Gottheit

Well, everyone who doesn't mind going to Hell. I have a few Christian buddies, who I know, would not cheat. At all. In fact, when my friend sees a girl he wants to date, he cuts himself off from any other potential mate, to just set his sights on that one.

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#5  Edited By Methos

no...

i've been cheated on before, but i have never cheated on any of my girlfriends in the past and i have no intention of ever doing so...

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#6  Edited By pixelized

Did anyone read that novel at the top?

lol

Nope never cheated...nor cheated on...as far as i know

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#7  Edited By lady_redhead

Yep Ive been cheate on and i have cheated... once...

But i would never do i again, but if my partner cheated on me i would take the time to work out why and work through it.

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#8  Edited By danhimself

i had this girlfriend awhile back and she was cheating on me all the time and i was cheating on her all the time it was the worst relationship ive ever been in...so to answer your question just because a few do doesn't mean everyone else does

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#10  Edited By Gottheit

Dude. For revenge? Just break her neck. Problem solved.

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#11  Edited By Spiderman 2099

I agree with Static.

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#12  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

I only cheat for revenge.Other than that...faithful.

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#13  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Gottheit says:

"Dude. For revenge? Just break her neck. Problem solved."

Then I'd go to jail...

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#14  Edited By Static Shock

Vance Astro says:

"I only cheat for revenge.Other than that...faithful."

Two wrongs don't make a right, Vance. :(

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#15  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Static Shock says:

"Vance Astro says:
"I only cheat for revenge.Other than that...faithful."
Two wrongs don't make a right, Vance. :("

They don't but it makes me feel better.When someone is cheating on you and your being faithful,for me the only way to feel better about it is if i'm doing the same thing.

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#16  Edited By Static Shock

Vance Astro says:

"They don't but it makes me feel better.When someone is cheating on you and your being faithful,for me the only way to feel better about it is if i'm doing the same thing."

That just makes you as low as them. No common ground there. Instead of stooping to that level, you should humble yourself and not let yourself get down her level... But, whatever decision you make is yours...

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#17  Edited By Ebony Bishop

Never cheated, never been cheated on...and really can't believe anyone could actually believe that everyone does.

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#18  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Static Shock says:

"Vance Astro says:
"They don't but it makes me feel better.When someone is cheating on you and your being faithful,for me the only way to feel better about it is if i'm doing the same thing."
That just makes you as low as them. No common ground there. Instead of stooping to that level, you should humble yourself and not let yourself get down her level... But, whatever decision you make is yours..."

So,what do you do if you find out a girl is cheating you? You just break-up with her and let it go?

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#19  Edited By Ebony Bishop

Vance Astro says:

"Static Shock says:
"Vance Astro says:
"They don't but it makes me feel better.When someone is cheating on you and your being faithful,for me the only way to feel better about it is if i'm doing the same thing."
That just makes you as low as them. No common ground there. Instead of stooping to that level, you should humble yourself and not let yourself get down her level... But, whatever decision you make is yours..."

So,what do you do if you find out a girl is cheating you? You just break-up with her and let it go?"

Well, that would be the mature thing to do.

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#20  Edited By Spiderman 2099

No offense to your friend Static, but if anyone actually believes, 100%, that everyone cheats is a stupid person Its stupid to say everyone does this or likes that.

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#21  Edited By Static Shock

Vance Astro says:

"So,what do you do if you find out a girl is cheating you? You just break-up with her and let it go?"

Exactly. If she's cheating on you, she wasn't meant to be with you in the first place. With that being said, let her go and continue to find someone that deserves you. Then again, there are some that learn from their mistakes and never cheat on their partners again. If you cheat on her to get back at her, it doesn't make it any better. It'll make you just as dirty as she is, no matter what.

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No offense to your friend Static, but if anyone actually believes, 100%, that everyone cheats is a stupid person Its stupid to say everyone does this or likes that.

Well, I agree. But, as much as I think this is stupid for someone to think that, everyone is still entitled to their opinion. And, there are reasons why he feels this way.

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Ebony Bishop says:

"Vance Astro says:
"Static Shock says:
"Vance Astro says:
"They don't but it makes me feel better.When someone is cheating on you and your being faithful,for me the only way to feel better about it is if i'm doing the same thing."
That just makes you as low as them. No common ground there. Instead of stooping to that level, you should humble yourself and not let yourself get down her level... But, whatever decision you make is yours..."
So,what do you do if you find out a girl is cheating you? You just break-up with her and let it go?"
Well, that would be the mature thing to do."

Who cares,what's mature.It's about how I feel.I was with a girl one time who had given head to half the startin line up on the basketball team.I was the only person on the startin line-up she hadn't done anything sexual with..and I was her boyfriend.I'm not going to let that slide.You deprive me off sex and give it to everyone else...you have to pay for that.

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#24  Edited By Static Shock

Vance Astro says:

"Who cares,what's mature.It's about how I feel.I was with a girl one time who had given head to half the startin line up on the basketball team.I was the only person on the startin line-up she hadn't done anything sexual with..and I was her boyfriend.I'm not going to let that slide.You deprive me off sex and give it to everyone else...you have to pay for that. "

Damn. That's f@cked up

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#25  Edited By Ebony Bishop

Vance Astro says:

"Who cares,what's mature.It's about how I feel.I was with a girl one time who had given head to half the startin line up on the basketball team.I was the only person on the startin line-up she hadn't done anything sexual with..and I was her boyfriend.I'm not going to let that slide.You deprive me off sex and give it to everyone else...you have to pay for that. "

Hey, do what you want. I was just answering your question. If you break up with them, you're the bigger person, and you can retain some measure of dignity and pride. If you cheat as well, you're just as bad as them. But if that makes you feel better, than that's your choice to make.

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Ebony Bishop says:

"Vance Astro says:
"Who cares,what's mature.It's about how I feel.I was with a girl one time who had given head to half the startin line up on the basketball team.I was the only person on the startin line-up she hadn't done anything sexual with..and I was her boyfriend.I'm not going to let that slide.You deprive me off sex and give it to everyone else...you have to pay for that. "
Hey, do what you want. I was just answering your question. If you break up with them, you're the bigger person, and you can retain some measure of dignity and pride. If you cheat as well, you're just as bad as them. But if that makes you feel better, than that's your choice to make. "

Dignity...pride? In the country where people are praised my how many girls the bone...I would say I wouldbe doing myself justice in the eyes of many.

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#27  Edited By Ebony Bishop

Vance Astro says:

"Ebony Bishop says:
"Vance Astro says:
"Who cares,what's mature.It's about how I feel.I was with a girl one time who had given head to half the startin line up on the basketball team.I was the only person on the startin line-up she hadn't done anything sexual with..and I was her boyfriend.I'm not going to let that slide.You deprive me off sex and give it to everyone else...you have to pay for that. "
Hey, do what you want. I was just answering your question. If you break up with them, you're the bigger person, and you can retain some measure of dignity and pride. If you cheat as well, you're just as bad as them. But if that makes you feel better, than that's your choice to make. "

Dignity...pride? In the country where people are praised my how many girls the bone...I would say I wouldbe doing myself justice in the eyes of many."

No, teenagers are praised on how many "girls they bone". And if the people who's eyes you'd be "doing justice" are impressed by that, why are you so concerned about fidelity anyways? Clearly these people aren't impressed by your faithfulness.

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#28  Edited By Static Shock

Vance Astro says:

"Dignity...pride? In the country where people are praised my how many girls the bone...I would say I wouldbe doing myself justice in the eyes of many."

So, it's right because society says it is? Don't you think it's better to think for yourself?

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#29  Edited By Static Shock

Vance Astro says:

"I'm not saying it's right for people to feel that way.I'm saying if I feel that i've done something right and nobody says anything is wrong with it...i'm not going to feel bad about it."

Then that begs the question. Don't you think it's better to think for yourself?

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#30  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Ebony Bishop says:

"Vance Astro says:
"Ebony Bishop says:
"Vance Astro says:
"Who cares,what's mature.It's about how I feel.I was with a girl one time who had given head to half the startin line up on the basketball team.I was the only person on the startin line-up she hadn't done anything sexual with..and I was her boyfriend.I'm not going to let that slide.You deprive me off sex and give it to everyone else...you have to pay for that. "
Hey, do what you want. I was just answering your question. If you break up with them, you're the bigger person, and you can retain some measure of dignity and pride. If you cheat as well, you're just as bad as them. But if that makes you feel better, than that's your choice to make. "
Dignity...pride? In the country where people are praised my how many girls the bone...I would say I wouldbe doing myself justice in the eyes of many."
No, *teenagers* are praised on how many "girls they bone". And if the people who's eyes you'd be "doing justice" are impressed by that, why are you so concerned about fidelity anyways? Clearly these people aren't impressed by your faithfulness. "

No,i'm pretty sure people don't stop giving you props on that just because your grown.Either way..i'm not an unfaithful person neither is anyone I associate with...my point was that sometimes I feel cheating is neccessary.

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#31  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Static Shock says:

"Vance Astro says:
"Dignity...pride? In the country where people are praised my how many girls the bone...I would say I wouldbe doing myself justice in the eyes of many."
So, it's right because society says it is? Don't you think it's better to **think for yourself**? "

I'm not saying it's right for people to feel that way.I'm saying if I feel that i've done something right and nobody says anything is wrong with it...i'm not going to feel bad about it.

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#32  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Static Shock says:

"Vance Astro says:
"I'm not saying it's right for people to feel that way.I'm saying if I feel that i've done something right and nobody says anything is wrong with it...i'm not going to feel bad about it."
Then that begs the question. **Don't you think it's better to think for yourself?**"

I do think for myself...hold on,let me give you a scenario.

If the neighbors cat keeps running in my house..and one day I decide,I'm tired of this damn cat,i'm gonna throw it over a fence or run it over with my car.That is what I thought was ok to do at the moment.But if one of my friends is like...damn n#gga,you seriously gonna run over that cat,that's not right to do that to animals.Even though i'm still ok with my decision,I am still going to remember what he said and feel some type of way about it.

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#33  Edited By Spiderman 2099

Longshot says:

"I've cheated :) "

Yourself doesn't count. ;)

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#34  Edited By Longshot

I've cheated :)

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#35  Edited By King Saturn

Nah. I have never chated on any girlfriend I have been with. But sometimes situations arise that can really test your faithfulness with a person. A few days ago... I was having issues with a chick at my job that had the hots for me and she was married. I had to straight out tell her I had a girlfriend, and control myself from getting into a compromising situation.

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#36  Edited By Static Shock

Longshot says:

"I've cheated :) "

Any reason why?

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#37  Edited By Static Shock

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#38  Edited By Longshot

Static Shock says:

"Longshot says:
"I've cheated :) "

Any reason why?"

Boredom.lol.

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#39  Edited By pixelized

spiderman, of whom is your av of?

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#40  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Longshot says:

"Static Shock says:
"Longshot says:
"I've cheated :) "
Any reason why?"
Boredom.lol."

LMFAO.

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"spiderman, of whom is your av of?"

Spider-Man 2099.

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#42  Edited By Longshot

Vance Astro says:

"Longshot says:
"Static Shock says:
"Longshot says:
"I've cheated :) "
Any reason why?"
Boredom.lol."

LMFAO."

She kept doing the same damn trick with her tongue,come on now ^_^

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#43  Edited By pixelized

gross longshot

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#44  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Lmao@ Longshot.I know what you mean.

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#45  Edited By Static Shock

Longshot says:

"She kept doing the same damn trick with her tongue,come on now ^_^"

Well, if your girl can't constantly please you, I can't blame you for cheating...

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#46  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

Static Shock says:

"Longshot says:
" She kept doing the same damn trick with her tongue,come on now ^_^"
Well, if your girl can't constantly please you, I can't blame you for cheating..."

Is that sarcasm?

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#47  Edited By King Saturn

Static Shock says:

"Longshot says:
" She kept doing the same damn trick with her tongue,come on now ^_^"
Well, if your girl can't constantly please you, I can't blame you for cheating..."

I agree

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#48  Edited By Longshot

Vance Astro says:

"Lmao@ Longshot.I know what you mean."

Right?It gets old after awhile lol

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#49  Edited By Static Shock

Vance Astro says:

"Is that sarcasm?"

Sadly, it isn't. People who can't please their partners is the main reason why relationships go bad. If you can't please and cater to your partner, then you can't blame him/her for cheating.

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#50  Edited By triple7

Static Shock says:

"Vance Astro says:
" Is that sarcasm?"
Sadly, it isn't. People who can't please their partners is the main reason why relationships go bad. If you can't please and cater to your partner, then you can't blame him/her for cheating."

Money agruements are the main reason for divorce. And no not everyone cheats.