Do you find it embarrassing to be a virgin at a mid-20s age?

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Poll: Do you find it embarrassing to be a virgin at a mid-20s age? (83 votes)

Yes 29%
No 71%

Assume the virgin in question isn't religious and abstaining for marriage, it is just someone who wasn't lucky enough to find a partner.

I don't think it is that embarrassing but virgins in or past their mid-20s do get shamed and get called an "incel" by some, I don't see why being a virgin is such a taboo, a virgin's lack of sexual experience is no one else's business and I don't see it as a strong indicator of his or her quality as a person.

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Why the hell should random people even know the number of times someone had sex?

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Not really. I don't think people should get involved with that stuff until they're married. Prior to that, there's always a chance you may become a parent without wanting to, and who knows how it will go after that if people break up.

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For a dude yes.

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For a moment there I forgot that I'm not a virgin.

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#55  Edited By SocaJunkie

There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin, it’s just the way society is and the negative attitude towards men who haven’t got some. It stems from thinking if you’re a virgin then you can’t attract the opposite sex and therefore fail at the basic function of re-producing.

I’ll still make fun of you for being a virgin if I know you though and will use it as an insult whenever possible.

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#56 juiceboks  Moderator

There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin, it’s just the way society is and the negative attitude towards men who haven’t got some. It stems from thinking if you’re a virgin then you can’t attract the opposite sex and therefore fail at the basic function of re-producing.

I’ll still make fun of you for being a virgin if I know you though and will use it as an insult whenever possible.

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There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin, it’s just the way society is and the negative attitude towards men who haven’t got some. It stems from thinking if you’re a virgin then you can’t attract the opposite sex and therefore fail at the basic function of re-producing.

I’ll still make fun of you for being a virgin if I know you though and will use it as an insult whenever possible.

lmao

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@juiceboks: There’s no way dude, not with your golden voice.

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@socajunkie: lmao the last but I think some people have stigma about virgin = trash reading comics = nerd. Not to brag but I drive a nice car and I like MCU movies what’s wrong with it? Everyone has their personal taste but being a virgin makes you seem a loser to someone who has a great girl that’s what I think. Some people have anxiety of that

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Yes , if anyone wants explanation I’ll do

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If you're a normal-decent looking female, no. That's actually respectable and attractive for a lot of guys.

If you're a dude, yeah? kinda.

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Not really, no.

Even despite the current culture of my country.

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Nah, it's not hard to have sex like at all...I'm pretty sure people who waited as long as they did (or those who still haven't but are waiting for someone worthy) could've lost it before if they wanted.

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Try being 33 and only mating once.

How big was your litter?

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A little bit. But there is worst things.

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No it's not. There are a lot of factors in knowing someone well enough to have sex. Some people can be terrible people but maybe great connections with their preferred sex which increases their chance to have sex. While others can be great people but may not have the opportunity or be able to make a good connection with their preferred sex partner to have sex with them.

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#67  Edited By TheHercules

IDK, lost it at 18!

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There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin, it’s just the way society is and the negative attitude towards men who haven’t got some. It stems from thinking if you’re a virgin then you can’t attract the opposite sex and therefore fail at the basic function of re-producing.

I’ll still make fun of you for being a virgin if I know you though and will use it as an insult whenever possible.

LOOOL yeah pretty much this.

I had a friend who was a virgin in mid-twenties and I always gave him words of encouragement about how it didn't matter and that he's still a good man. But as soon as it got time to talk trash that was the biggest cards I used

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@zezima said:

It's not really a big deal.

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If you're a normal-decent looking female, no. That's actually respectable and attractive for a lot of guys.

If you're a dude, yeah? kinda.

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@ganon15 said:
@kirkseven said:

If you're a normal-decent looking female, no. That's actually respectable and attractive for a lot of guys.

If you're a dude, yeah? kinda.

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Yep

Most women that old, (who aren't hideous) are indeed virgins by choice. It's not like a normal or pretty girl has to put effort into anything if she wants to get laid. (it's an impressive feat of self control if she chooses not to)

Whereas, most virgin men you see in their 20s, aren't virgins by choice. Which makes sense, given that the average man has to actually work to get such things. (and spend money)

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@itouchedtheboat: Gotta go for their Achilles heel.

When you're hangin with your boys and he starts talking trash a little too much...

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It is embarrassing, yes.

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stumerica

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Not really.

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It is incredibly easy to lose your virginity, male or female. Back in the before-now, it was apparently much more challenging (particularly for a guy) to find a girl to boink with, and many girls often didn't give it because, socially speaking, it raised their worth toward many prospective husbands.

Nowadays, because there's no real hurdle in losing it anymore, there really isn't much value in it, when looking at it as being a "triumph".

Look at it this way; generations ago, young people didn't drive. Mid-aged folks and up did. Back then, a young person having a car and licence might have been a "triumphant" thing. Fast-foward to today. Does anyone really give a shit about seeing a 17-year-old driving a car?

If someone older than a teen doesn't drive or have a license today, it's usually by choice (this is quite common in dense, metropolitan regions with very good and widespread public transportation). And just like seeing a teen driving, people have the same reaction to a 20-something-year-old that doesn't drive; they don't give a shit.

Same with having your virginity; no one gives a shit.

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I'm already into my earley 30's, I'm not happy about it, but I'm not angry either.

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#78 juiceboks  Moderator

@juiceboks: There’s no way dude, not with your golden voice.

You'd be surprised, that helps but it ain't enough to seal the deal. I may just have bad luck in that realm

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That isn't really something to be embarrassed about

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I'm not in my mid-20s, but I don't see why anyone should be embarrassed by being a virgin. I mean, even when you do lose your virginity, it's not like much changes.

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@wolfrazer: Exactly if you can't find anyone just hire a prostitute gosh

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when ppl post walls of text on why we are brainwashed but in reality all you need to see is a question like this to prove it.

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#83  Edited By BatmanPlusJay

@socajunkie said:

There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin, it’s just the way society is and the negative attitude towards men who haven’t got some. It stems from thinking if you’re a virgin then you can’t attract the opposite sex and therefore fail at the basic function of re-producing.

I’ll still make fun of you for being a virgin if I know you though and will use it as an insult whenever possible.

I like this guy. I do the same shit. There's no problem with having braces or riding a bike everywhere you go, but you're damn right I'll clown you for it. No car having ass picket fence mouthed goof.

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I'm a minor, and this thread is interesting ;D