Do you find it embarrassing to be a virgin at a mid-20s age?

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Poll: Do you find it embarrassing to be a virgin at a mid-20s age? (83 votes)

Yes 29%
No 71%

Assume the virgin in question isn't religious and abstaining for marriage, it is just someone who wasn't lucky enough to find a partner.

I don't think it is that embarrassing but virgins in or past their mid-20s do get shamed and get called an "incel" by some, I don't see why being a virgin is such a taboo, a virgin's lack of sexual experience is no one else's business and I don't see it as a strong indicator of his or her quality as a person.

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If you wanted and just can't get it it's kind of embarrassing because it's not that hard.

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Who cares?

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Show me one single human being on this planet who actualy believes from himself that being a virgin in your mid 20s is embarassing and not becouse he was teached , influenced etc.

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Asking the real questions in the Vine.

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Ghostodoofus2

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@arthur_morgan: I think the problem with today's world is being out of the ordinary can be labelled as "weird", being a mid-20s virgin is clearly above the average age of virginity loss of every country and so it is clearly out of the ordinary.

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@rabumalal: I think being anonymous without much to lose on one's personal image, people on here can answer real questions more honestly.

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@ghostodoofus2: who teached those ppl around the world about when to loose your virginity? When its normal ? When its to late? And in the right way?

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If you were trying to score your whole life but failed on every attempt then yeah that seems really pitiful and pathetic.

If you don't care much about having sex and are more preoccupied with other important things in life then personally I would say no, you can't be a loser if you choose not to compete and instead participate on another game.

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#10 TakenStew22  Online

Obviously not. Nothing's wrong with not having a girlfriend. If that's just not your thing then it's fine.

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Nope.

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@takenstew22: Well, my case is having liked women who already have boyfriends or show no interest in me and having only been liked by women I've no interest in.

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@mimisalome: Thank you. Yeah, I've never scored but I never tried hard enough to score either, my problem is self-doubt and inactivity. Maybe everyone feels they don't have much to impress a crush.

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It's not really a big deal.

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Try being 33 and only mating once.

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Nah

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It depends on the individual. If that person intended to stay a virgin then it's perfectly fine. If that person just can't get laid then yeah, its embarrassing.

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It depends on the individual. If that person intended to stay a virgin then it's perfectly fine. If that person just can't get laid then yeah, its embarrassing.

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#22  Edited By Life_Without_Progress  Online

No, I'm a guy who lives in a country that is highly collectivistic and religious in culture. Most Filipinos don't do that until they're married or else you're getting disowned.

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There are some people who can't have intimacy because the kind of person of u are. I am basically a nerd who spends most of the time in his room and I have never really talked to women with the kind of passion u need to have, either that or I am scared.

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No, I'm a guy who lives a country that is highly collectivistic and religious in culture. Most Filipinos don't do that until they're married or else you're getting disowned.

About the same in my country. Especially that Muslims value virginity a lot, apparently.

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@lan_fan said:

@vishop_: South East.

Same here. I live in a country where millions live with so many different cultures. I am literally no one honestly.

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@vishop_: Which country are you from to be exact?

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No.

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Most people won’t agree to my opinion but yes and no at the same time.

Its not even a big deal neither hard to lose , it happened when I was 16 and I don’t get what’s hard on it , it depends only on yourself. There’s nothing wrong with it but is a little too slow to lose at that time or being a virgin, most people are virgin in 20-30s..

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#39  Edited By Michaelbn

@ghostodoofus2: I guess that happens in places like Europe or countries similar to usa. In my country there are many early-20 virgins and some mid-20 virgins.

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@ghostodoofus2: nah I don’t think so. I wouldn’t be neither happy neither depressed if it happens anyways.

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#42  Edited By Ghostodoofus2

@michaelbn: Well, I was just going by the official list of the average age of virginity loss.

EDIT: Wait, actually no. The average ages of China and India (the two most populous countries) are over 20.

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@lan_fan said:

I'm from Indonesia.

Cool. Have u ever went to any other South Asian country?

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#44  Edited By infantfinite128

I agree that it's no one's business. Outside of being happy when I see a married couple being pregnant, I have no interest in people's sexual intercourse. I don't find it admirable when anyone talks of sexual intercourse out of marriage.

Although, I come from the view that all unmarried people are called to abstinence, and I believe all people are called to chastity which is living in accordance with Church teaching in and out of marriage against lust.

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As of general consensus do people think that ur virginity depends ur character?

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#46  Edited By Perethorn

As an Asperger user who has failed to score several times i can tell you, people around me finds it embarrasing.

But i just kinda learned to live with it and accept me as what i am despite everything.

At my 24 i'm not embarrased of myself at all.

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It is embarrassing, yes.

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#49  Edited By Aka_aka_aka_ak  Online

Depends on the reason and how embarrassed you get when talking about it.

If it's clear that you're embarrassed by it then it's embarrassing. If it's clear that you don't care then others won't care either.

It's also going to depend massively on how attractive you are. Being an attractive virgin is not embarrassing because people assume it's by choice, being an ugly virgin is more likely to be embarrassing because people assume it's not by choice.

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I personally think it is.