But a woman is a free *not everywhere :( * human being, she can pick whatever role she wants. In light of this, all men retain certain preferences for their roles and that of their women.
You see, I can't cook. In a long term relationship, it would be favorable if my partner did. It is unique for each couple.
Well you could always um learn to cook.
YOU THINK THAT I HAVEN'T TRIED???
Actually, I haven't. It is just that I am supremely lazy. This is why the scenario mentioned in my comment above is largely fictional as my personality and laziness prevents me from attaining any meaningful and beautiful relationship.
Ah well as the cliche goes there are plenty more fish in the sea :)
Speaking from experience, a fish is mighty hard to catch unless you have patience and a gift with location. Anyway, thanks Decepticon, we all need a cliche when everything has failed.
First off -- it was you who brought forward the idea that female soldiers are in the front lines (infantry) in the British Army as medics. You. Here. Let me help you remember:
And in the UK women are funnily enough not allowed in the UK infantry ( I think? ) But they are on the front-line as medical infantry...or something like that, so they have always been allowed on the front-line just not conventionally.
Women have not and are not allowed to be medical infantry. As in, close combat. So no, they have not always been allowed on the front line, just not conventionally (your words). Ever. So either you mean to tell me they served as doctors and nurses away from close combat (which they have) or they haven't because that was the distinction I made. You tangent about different countries, yours/mine/hers/his was unnecessary and frankly, confusing as you were the one to bring it up in the first place.
Canada allows females in its infantry -- as does New Zealand and a handful of other countries. Not yours though. That was my point -- not conventionally or otherwise. Continued discussion here is again, irrelevant.
Now, I will attempt to keep this brief. You continue to make the same accusations and assertions which continue to fail in shoring up your claims. Your claims, not mine. Remember, you are the one who asserted standards being lowered are risking lives just to accommodate "unqualified" women. I sincerely have no idea how you are failing to comprehend the report's findings and furthermore, assert I have taken anything out of context when I have been very clear. Very. The report has repeatedly stated that to have a special standard for women is discriminatory towards men. It has repeatedly stated that any indirect discrimination on the part of fitness tests deemed necessary to the carrying out of a specific job is a defensible position.
You might not like what your government says or does, but the Winsor Report has not been generated by some arm-chair critic:
"Tom Winsor, working very closely with a former chief constable, Sir Edward Crew, was chosen to provide an independent and unbiased view on how best to bring police pay and conditions into the 21st century. He was asked to approach the task with a professional and analytical rigour and carried out a detailed evidence gathering process including requesting data from all 43 police forces in England and Wales, meeting officers at all ranks, carrying out consultations and referring to a large number of reports, case law and other papers as detailed in the appendices in his reports."
This above was a study sponsored and requested by the Police Advisory Board (Police Force). Interesting read. This is a bit of relevant information as well -- 15 police forces took part voluntarily, 223 men and 52 females (it was originally 17). This is the breakdown of who participated:
Metropolitan Police Service, Devon and Cornwall, North Wales, West Midlands, Staffordshire, Cleveland, Strathclyde and Lothian Borders, South Yorkshire, West Yorkshire, Avon and Somerset, Greater Manchester Police, Merseyside, Durham, Northumbria, Cambridgeshire
I think that's a better representation compared to your select group, yes? In this exhaustive and thorough report they were able to recommend specific fitness test requirements for each specialty, above and beyond the standard expected of every constable (who will be expected to pass annually starting this September). The annual test is for fitness, not self defense. Comprised of three components - a run under a specified amount of time and the ability to push/pull a certain weight. Gender neutral of course - as is all fitness tests required of your country's police force.
There is this recent news article from earlier this year stating the fitness tests will be compulsory every year.
"...the Association of Chief Police Officers confirmed: ‘Compulsory annual fitness testing for all officers has been agreed and a working group is planning its implementation. Proposals on restricted duties are still under discussion.’"
Your emotional arguments aside (gee -- thanks for the visual but every police officer's life is in danger the moment they start their shift -- actually -- ALL the time because many have lost their lives while off duty in the pursuit of criminals) I have done nothing but provide information to which you have decided to disregard and/or discard as not credible. That's on you. I happen to rely on information and it was easily found (and very, very interesting so this was not a wasted effort -- I love learning) but until you can provide me proof that a physical standard has been lowered to a level to accommodate women resulting in loss of life, there is nothing more to contribute.
I appreciate you will be responding but I am comfortable ending my participation here in our discussion as I have more than provided enough proof of not just patience in hopes you would address my above question (you have not) but also in sticking to quantified, demonstrable information and documentation to illustrate my points. I challenged your assertion that standards were lowered to the point of life or death and you failed to back up that statement.
Cool...but....by the way..... the Police Advisory Board are not a police force! LOL - They are a branch of the Office of Manpower Economics! Lol, Just to let you know, Windsor was two years old, and everything that could have been implemented was implemented by now and the fitness tests you are talking about is generalized..you are aware, in the UK that no police force follows national guidelines really and only follows their own guidelines? Windsor was about money-saving. Not fitness, it only said how to save money in fitness.
And, In the Metropolitan police service ( Not Force ) the fitness tests are annually. Your sources are wrong, beacuse they are outdated. Simple as. The government websites are all outdated, it says this on most of their legislation articles if you care to look it up. You may think gathering 100 different sources is a good way to debate on this issue but the UK is so crap at updating anything.....any source will ultimately be outdated when we talk about issues that were prominent in 2010. And the daily mail cannot be used as a informative source LOL. You should know why, they are a money-making paper without a shred of integrity who make up - change and simply lie to get online views.
Also the "college of policing" is not official until 2014 until official legislation comes through ;) They are not even an established body, so using them as an official source is like me using....well, something that is not established and a fan-police website.
@monsterstomp: The whole 'get in the kitchen' thing is BS, most of the best cooks in the world are in fact male. Most of the things they do, males do better. They got us in the childbirth thing, but then again male pregnancy is just around the corner.
No not really. Sure, one task may be better suited to a gender because of the way our brains/bodies work, but both can still perform the same task albeit with various degrees of effort.
Gender roles exist as a societal construct but what one chooses is up to the individual. The better question might be, why concern oneself on the opinions of other individuals within a micro-societal specialty website? I mean, it isn't like we represent a cross-section of the Western Indo-European culture; what difference should our opinions make?
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