At what point does an age gap relationship become inappropriate?

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Poll At what point does an age gap relationship become inappropriate? (31 votes)

Love is love. Age is just a number 23%
The moment "Daddy" or "Mummy" can be said unironically 55%
Other. State in the comments 23%

Assuming both sides are legally of age, at what point does an age gap relationship become inappropriate your opinion

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Anything beyond 10-15 years is weird, imo.

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#2  Edited By Aqua1

The age gap after 18 is in my opinion not really a topic anymore.

But it would be strange if someone who is 25 has a girl/boyfriend that is 15 or less.

I know my friends dad has an age gap of 16 years with his wife, his dad doesnt work anymore and his wife is still working.

I think at an older age it doesnt matter that much anymore, but dont understand me false, i would be still suprised if someones age gap is aroud 20 years, damn.

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If both are of legal age then I don't see what's inappropriate about two adults being in a relationship.

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@megadhel said:

Anything beyond 10-15 years is weird, imo.

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Anything beyond 4 years...

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#7  Edited By Dramus17

None if it's legal

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#8  Edited By crclopezos

Ok, it depends on the context.

-If it is a case in which the eldest knew the youngest as a child, it seems inappropriate to me.

Violet Evergarden Spoilers.

That's why in Violet Evergarden I didn't like the romantic plot, even when Violet is already an adult by the end of the story.

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So, long as it’s legal, it is fine. Very weird, but fine. Their lives, their consent, their choice.

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I'd say when they're old enough to be your parent AND you were part of the growing up.

Obviously minors are a no

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#13  Edited By Ghostodoofus2

Regarding a 20-year age gap. I would say that a 45-year-old with a 25-year-old is acceptable, a 38-year-old with an 18-year-old would be very sus.

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The younger the lower the gap to be acceptable. If the younger partner is 18 yo and the other is 36 yo, it's kinda off, but a 30 with a 55 isn't as odd.

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Meh, I’ve seen weirder

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Depends on the age obviously

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If both are of legal age then I don't see what's inappropriate about two adults being in a relationship.

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If both are of legal age then I don't see what's inappropriate about two adults being in a relationship.

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If you were an adult before they were born, I'd argue it's a little much, but as long as they both are consenting adults, I'd say it doesn't really matter.

My first argument falls apart if a 78 year old dates a 60 year old. I doubt anyone would judge that.

But a 36 year old dating an 18 year old is the same age gap. I'd see most people judging that relationship.

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@eredin12 said:

I have nothing against people loving whoever they wish, as long as it is legal, we cannot ever allow something as despicable as pedophilia but if both are over 18, it is not my business

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Well if they are both of legal age then it should not be an issue though it could look Weird if a 19 year old is with someone like 65 years old or something. I guess the other thing is what is Legal Age because don't some Nations have a legal age at like 16 years old ?

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If both are of legal age then I don't see what's inappropriate about two adults being in a relationship.

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Honestly, as long as the person is of legal age they can be 18 dating a 99 year old who cares? Not my business. Sure it's rare and maybe weird to some people but to me that's the most important thing legally. I wouldn't date someone that young if I were that old or even now in my late 30's as too immature for my taste, but I worked with a girl years ago she was 18 dating a 31 year old. Some others thought it was weird but the guys her age at the job and in general she paid no attention to. She's a friend of mine too, I am 4 years older than her so now she's in her mid 30's now with a guy closer to her age.

I think Katharine McPhee is with a dude like 30+years older than her or something.

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#25  Edited By hyperbolchamber

For a healthy, stable relationship, there should be no more than 2 years difference (regardless of who is older or younger), because according to virtually all studies done on the subject, even 3 years age difference is already harmful in the long-term, especially if someone is looking for marriage, saying simply about "legal age" has neither scientific nor psychological basis on healthy relationship as the bigger the gap from 3 years and onward the much higher the dysfunction of the relationship is, especially if that gap is during the years 18-24 where people tend to change almost completely in their mindset during that time (although westerners in general are very bad when it comes to marriage/relationships due to their immoral society which is declining)

also showing celebrities as example is just ridiculous as celebrities are incapable of having commited relationships in the first place, most of them divorce and fail badly due to the nature of their work being damaging and not allowing for that stuff

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Could you honestly..... or would it be the last step before homosexuality ?

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@yejj said:

Dcare

Substance Use Disorder?

this is what happened the Western woman?

I mean without the Roids and Mind Altering Drugs are they not also feminist ugly on the inside

What

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I thought I would quit at episode 3 then briefly I considered going back but then someone reviewed ep four

They say A globalist pervert weirdo 'Neil Druckmann' decided to have a moment in the show with Ellie a 14-year-old girl looking at gay porn magazine erections with the 'pages stuck together' reading reviews I honestly thought this was a very weird thing to have in a tv show and for America to then export across the world, they couldn't just do a normal show or it was like an advert don't worry Hollyweird and Epstein island are still open for business?

I was never a big player fan of the games but did enjoy watch some speed run online. Glad I quit the tv series, I might watch critical drinker to see if they do anything good with the series.

Lol, what does your cope on gay people even have to do with the original threads claim?

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#36  Edited By yejj
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What does the number and history say

Just like in ancient Babylon, the Roman Catholic Church, the British Royals, India, Arabia and Greece

79% of homosexual men say over half of their sex partners are strangers. Source: http://www.amazon.com/Unequal-Opportunity-Disparities-Affecting-Bisexual/dp/0195301536 99.8% of lesbian, gay and bisexual teens will change their sexual orientation within 13 years. Source: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26048483 Two-thirds of men and women who were homosexual change their orientation to heterosexual five years later. Source: http://psycnet.apa.org/books/11261/004 Two thirds of self-identified lesbians later have heterosexual relationships. Source: http://psycnet.apa.org/books/11261/004 Identifying as lesbian, gay or bisexual does not end sexual questioning or confusion. Source: http://psycnet.apa.org/books/11261/004 One in eight gay men in London has HIV. Source: http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2014/11/18/13-of-gay-and-bisexual-men-in-london-living-with-hiv/ 44% of transsexuals show signs of clinical depression. Source: http://www.medicaldaily.com/transgender-people-more-likely-develop-depression-and-anxiety-247044 Transsexuals are more likely to have autism than the general population. Source: http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00787-005-0469-4 Transsexuals college students are five times more likely than all students to have an eating disorder. Source: http://www.jahonline.org/article/S1054-139X%2815%2900087-7/abstract Transsexuals college students are 30 times more likely than straight men to have eating disorders. Source: http://www.jahonline.org/article/S1054-139X%2815%2900087-7/abstract 27% of MtF transsexuals test positive for HIV. Only 12% report it. Source: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/group/gender/transgender/ Transsexuals are several times more likely than normal people to have schizophrenia. Source: http://www.hindawi.com/journals/schizort/2014/463757/ Worldwide, male-to-female transsexuals are 50 times likely to have HIV ...Gay men are twice as likely as straight men to be in interracial relationships. Source: http://sf.oxfordjournals.org/content/93/4/1423 Over 20% of older homosexuals have had more than 500 different sex partners. Source: http://advindicate.com/articles/3022 The average gay man has several dozen sex partners per year. Source: http://advindicate.com/articles/3022 28% of homosexuals have had sex with over a thousand men. For straight men? Just 25% have had sex with more than 10 women. Source: http://advindicate.com/articles/3022 Most “long term relationships” between gay men last less than eight years. Source: http://advindicate.com/articles/3022 Among gay Canadian men in “committed relationships, only 25% were monogamous. Source: http://advindicate.com/articles/3022 In one study, only 9% of gay men were monogamous. Source: http://advindicate.com/articles/3022 75% of straight men an are faithful, compared to just 4.5% of gay men. Source: http://advindicate.com/articles/3022 In Berlin, 83% of gay men in “steady” relationships had had frequent affairs in the last year. Source: http://advindicate.com/articles/3022 Infection

Homosexuals are 2% of the population but 40% of pedophiles?

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3258147/

https://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/pessimism-about-pedophilia

, normal brain has the sense of repulsion, which degenerates obviously lack.

Yes! Trust statistics! Lol not this shit again

So whats the problem with actual healthy gay relationships?

Forgetting that sexual diseases occur in literally any sexual orientation including hetero relationships?

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Authority/dependency relationship difference is more appropriate than age difference

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#38  Edited By arctika

@hyperbolchamber:A normal stable relationship has to do with communication, mutual respect and loyalty, not age. Look at Harrison Ford and Calista or Katharine McPhee and her husband, major age gaps but they're happy. People in general have a higher divorce rate due to how people act, not so much age now days.

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@fromfurtherdisc: My guy, you have some huge prejudices you need to work on. They could not be more blatant. I bet you go on a rant about "the gay agenda" every time you see a gay character on TV.

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Age gaps above 10 years are about where it gets creepy. Lol at being indifferent about age gaps as long as they're "consenting adults".

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I mean technically it's only inappropriate if one party is under the legal age of consent. That being said a 50 y/o messing with a 18/19 y/o is crazy.