Any movie in particular? action? drama? thriller? horror? else?
A few of my personal top favourites came to mind--
Gone Girl, no cliché imo, got one powerful scene that involve sex but I would argue its necessary as part of character defining, not gonna comment on good/side bad side because of spoilers, but oh boy! its darn worth it! and lastly, gloomy theme, check!
Nightcrawler, echo of Gone Girl in very different way, checks all four boxes (hmm I can't remember any pandering sex scene in)...
Dark Knight. also Checks all four boxes....yes, joker won imo.