@Nudeviking said:
@Skunkstein said:
@Nudeviking said:
@Skunkstein said:
@joshmightbe said:
If you call her a whore you also need to call Iron Man, Hercules, Namor, Woverine, Batman, and Daredevil all whores because they've all had just as many if not more sex partners than her
Why does people keep believing that men can be whores??? Only women can.
Why does do people keep believing in really antiquated sexual double standards??? that men can be whores???
There I fixed it for you. If a dude enjoys sex he's a stud. If a woman enjoys sex she's a slut? That's a load of nonsense.
Why? Im tired of this crap about that female and men are the same.. we're not, never will be, no matter how much anyone wants it. Down to simple biology men and women are very different, we have different triggers, different patterns. You can see it down to infants.... and this isnt bad its just reality and biology.
Everyone man and woman should be able to have the same possibilities and get the same applause from what they achieve. But when it comes to basic patterns and habits there a differences between men and woman.
Now when thats said, a man cant be a ''slut'' or a ''whore'', because if a woman wants sex... she just has to be.. well there, and if she wants to have sex with a thousand she still just has to be there...
If a man wants to be a ''player'' then he has to be either good looking, charming, have a fake job, well dressed and have a game plan. Its in our biology how we react to each other sexually. You can see it in nature, our evolution and survival gene doesnt allow men to be ''whores''.
Im talking generally here.
So you are saying that because, in your opinion, men are less picky about sexual partners than women they cannot be sluts? Because men put more effort into finding sexual partners they can't be sluts?
Youre kinda right, but its way to simply to explain that way. Let me start over, and explain this:
There is a huge double standard when it comes to women and men and their sexuality and the whole deal of being promiscuous. When a guy sleeps with a bunch of women he is called a ‘’player’’ and he becomes ‘’the man’’ but when a women does the same she is seen as a ''whore'' or ''slut''. This seems unfair… how can each gender do the same thing but have totally opposite reactions on their reputation.
Now I can see from the responses to my previous post that im already seen as a sort os misogynist, which isn’t true at all. I believe in equal rights between the sexes, we both have completely equal brains, and vastly able to achieve the same things.
Anyway let me get back to my point….
First off there is the biological aspect, back in the days it was very simple, we had to survive, and to survive means two things, we have to survive as a human being and we had to survive as a race. By surviving as human beings we evolved different triggers and habits that made this possible. For example there is a reason many women find tall, strong, healthy men attractive, because these men gave them the best possibility to survive. This is also why men find women with wide hips attractive because they were better breeders. Women breed, men gave the seed, I mean it’s funny how the average infatuation for men lasts nine months.
In modern society its lies deep within our evolution to accept ‘’lose’’ men, and the opposite on ‘’lose’’ women, but I think the main point now is a bit different:
I think the reason for the double standards is because men naturally are ‘’easy’’. As I said before, if a woman wanted to, she could simply sleep with every man she wanted to, there would be few men turning a woman down if such was the situation. As I also said before the average man need to devote huge amount of time to get the opportunity to have sex with just a single woman. What im saying is that women have so many choices…. Many more than men when it comes to choosing a sexual partner.
When woman find no trouble at all in finding a sexual partner, and men finds it to be such a challenge, I think it makes sense that there are such double standards. Guys pretty much just take whatever they can find, where women have the luxery of being picky. So when a woman doesn’t discriminate between those shes sleeping with, society sees it as if shes misusing and abusing her power of choice and anyone who abuses a power is seen to looked at negatively. But when a guy manages to sleep with a bunch of women, when most guys are struggeling to find just one, it makes that one guy look very talented.
If a couple of dudes are out hunting, and if no one is shooting anything the whole day, except one guy who shoot five ducks, that one dude is seen as very talented huntsman. But if a woman goes out to a steakhouse and orders everything on the menu, she is considered a pig.
A man can’t be a whore because it takes damn much talent for a man to sleep with a lot of women, but a women is a whore if she sleeps with a lot of men, because that’s the easiest thing on the world to do.
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