@lykopis: :(
Aside from disseminating information, links, videos, and photographs, I don't much use Facebook. I rarely have actual conversations there in any form; merely comments on some article or picture a friend happens to have shared. I hear what you're saying about feeling tethered or bound; that's a big reason people have for deleting theirs, and I know a lot of folks who feel their life is less stressful because of it. It's useful for getting one thing out to lots of people (like photos), and for sending invitations to things/keeping track of RSVPs, but aside from that it's a cluttered, stressful nightmare. That said, I think it's fair to say that Facebook and other networks can be nice if used carefully, in small doses, and only with people with whom you really feel comfortable being connected in that way. In fact, all else being equal, I think I singlehandedly justify my continued usage with the photo-sharing thing.
Your situation sounds fairly terrible. I know people, particularly girls it seems, are pretty flippant with the way they use the word "whore." It's incredible how easily it's used and how difficultly it's expunged. And it's quite true that the Internet spreads a ton of damaging misinformation so quickly as to almost make it factual (amazing how many stories have to be "corrected" or redacted because they were based on complete fabrications). With the news, at least there's the risk of tarnishing the reputation of the organization which helps prevent too much faulty defamation, but with social networks it does seem there's a lot more "oh well, oops" than "oh dear god what have we done we're so sorry how can we make this up to you." I'm glad you were able to turn it into a positive experience though. Extreme catalysts can produce impressive reactions.
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