why do people give you heat for not liking fat chicks?

People always say oh you're shallow

You only care about looks

Personality matters too

Some people have metabolism problems blah blah blah

If im drunk i dont care what they look like :/

Idk but I also don't care lol I have no control over what I am and am not attracted to, idk what's so hard to understand about that for some people.

Idk. People sometimes give too much shit about things.

Really I've never heard anyone get mad at someone for not liking fat chicks. All I ever hear are dudes saying why can't I call girls fat but they can say they want tall guys. Also just calling someone fat under the guise that it is right to not like fat girls is just being a douche

Girls do that sh*t the most.. it's that whole " who's an upgrade, and who's a downgrade " bullsh*t.

Fat shamming is nothing new though.

There's a reason BBW is one of the most popular categories of porn on the internet. Not every guy dislikes "fat" or "full figured" women.

People feel bad for fat chicks like they can't defend themselves when really they could eat you or body slam you, fatality.

@mrhamwallet: I laughed a little too hard at that lmao

Anyway, don't be ashamed of who you are and aren't attracted to. Although I find it funny how it's shallow to not like fat girls, but how it's not shallow to dislike short guys.

"That's right, I like my girls BBW,

Type to wanna suck you dry and then eat some lunch with you

Yeah, so thick that everybody else in the room is so uncomfortable

Ass on Houston Texas, but the face look just like Claire Huxtable"

Kat Dennings has plenty of fans.

I hate, yet admire what you've done here.

They don't so much hate you for having a preference, but fat shaming. Making fun of a girl for being tubby.

They try to tell you that fat girls are cute. If whatever they got going on is sexy, then they are not fat (even if they are "overweight"). If the amount of fat cells make them look un-sexy then they are fat. Two women can weight the same and carry it different and one would look fat and the other would be thick. "Fat" just simply means "so fat you don't look good". There is no clear dividing line, just personal preference.

I am getting sick of that "All About That Bass" chick going on about "You might be fat but it's okay". It's not cool to make fun of fat people (to their face in a way that hurts their feelings), but you wouldn't tell a crackhead to not worry about it and keep smoking.

Because feminism was created by middle-aged, morbidly obese women who want to be treated like a skinny college girl by men.

LMAO

Lol the Internet has made everyone a protected minority.

Well I only give people crap when they're a dick about it. Everybody has a type so if you're not attracted there's no helping it but if someone feels they need to be insulting about a woman they aren't attracted to then they're just a douche.

And no it is not even the least bit helpful to a person to hear some random dude on the street insulting them and telling them to loose weight its bullying plain and simple and if you're around me when you're doing it you better be a paragon of perfection because otherwise I'll start pointing out your every visable flaw cause I'm a huge asshole with a weird sense of justice.

This has happened to me before. I've said I don't like fat chicks (because I'm not attracted to them). And they've said any one of the things in the op. I guess they don't understand physical attraction and how it is a very real thing.

And the people who say that only say that when it suits them. You turn it around on them and they'll be quiet.

@the_stegman: Ding! Ding! Its not about preference. Its about you being a dick about it.

My mother gained weight after having me and my brother and sisters, if a dude said what half these kids on the vine say about bigger people to my mom I'd have to kill them.

@guardiandevil83: conserving that your mom had kids, I'd hope she had a damn husband and wouldn't have to worry about attracting a mate

That is a good question.

@saren: You win the thread.

Because people like to complain about stuff and are brainwashed by the media on how a person should look.

Example: When I was around 18 I didn't go out with a girl because she was big. I had it in my mind that I wanted one of them models I see on TV. In that time I think the hottest thing in the world was Britney and Beyoncé and I wanted that type of women. IM BIG MYSELF and even I was judging her because she had a few extra pounds. What kind of BS is that?

Now? Im a man now, oh I go for any type. My demands are: Good personality, none smoker, for her to be caring and a pretty face, and the rest is a buffet in my eyes. ill be enjoying them warm pillows all night xP .

LOL

LOL!!!

They give you heat to bring out the flavour

People think you are "fat-shaming" or being mean, but everyone has preferences.

There's a difference between not being attracted to certain women and saying demeaning things about them.

If they're giving you heat, you're probably saying things you're not meant to, to be honest.

On a slightly related note: Shallow Hal would never happen.

@monsterstomp: Shallow Hal could TOTALLY happen.

@lunacyde: I meant the concept :P

You think if you were hypnotized for a few months dating a chick you thought was smoking, then get reverted back to normal and she's far more unattractive than you thought, you'd still date her?

@monsterstomp: Haha no, and I don't think it's really in a man's control whether he is physically attracted to a person. i think i'd try to make it work, but I don't think it would.

And I know I was just messin with ya.

@lunacyde: Oh you :)

its wrong to force someone to like someone even if that someone is unappealing

When I was a child, my dad always said to my brothers and me, "No fat chicks!" Joke's on him 'cuz I'm gay.

Too many fans, IMO.

There are certain "fat chicks" that look really good.

I remember me and another user was arguing with another user of the site who was a girl btw try to tell us that 290 wasn't big on a girl.

I remeber being told all through life liking fat girls is the new gay. I love my BBWs and all you guys can drive them to my arms to smother me.

I think it's ridiculous for chicks to scold dudes for not liking fatness when there are pictures like this floating around on the interwebs.

The person you marry won't be pretty forever, the moral of that type of thinking is that looks are only superficial. Make sure that you like the person for more than just their body. However good looks are always a plus.

@kgb725: 290 as in pounds?

@lunacyde: Yes I remember us telling her that was big on a guy and that if your bigger than Brock Lesnar your pretty big

What I want to know is why people take issue with not liking fat, ugly, non white, tall, short, flat, human chicks? People say your shallow, and racist, and weird and perverted, but hello, this is America, and America is about freedom. So what if I want a caucasian android with the body of a former supermodel, who gained a bit of body fat after she stopped being a supermodel, so she has a bit more junk in her trunk, but she is still hot, I mean hotter with the booty and all, but she is at that perfect age and size, before she has to like, start appearing in music videos, which is a bit too fat and old… kind of like that goldilocks period… you know what I mean, eh eh. So what if thats what I want, and I want her to be the perfect height, and skin color, and be a 10 out of 10… no lower than 9.7 tho' well unless its the face is 9.5, and the booty be a 10. Booty can't be lower than 9.7 tho', well unless she has two booties, like a Minotaur. Its maths.

Anyway, so want if thats what I want, and I want my caucasian android robot woman with perfect face, butt, hips, legs and knees, and she only wears a bikini and thong thats in the colors of the American flag, and she has a microwave in her robot stomach and her belly button squirts Beer. So what, who cares. People always say I'm weird and shallow. They always say it. The people. You know them right? The people? They always say it. Always. Always giving me heat. I should open up a Greenhouse with all that heat. All of it. That they, the people, are always giving me.

A person that tells you that he loves the way a fat chick or even dude looks like then he's a big fat liar. :P

They give us shit cuz they're SJWs.