Is is worth going to a club alone?

Should I go alone?

Like I don't have anyone who does this.

I want to try.

Is it safe?/Worth it?

y u do dis, to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

Never been completely alone but I've spent the entire night away from my pals before, just make sure you're confident (or drunk) enough to meet new people - you wouldn't want to spend the night at a club with no one to talk too

It's fine. As long as you don't get too drunk.

@giliad_: Yeah that's my problem, can't get drunk nor confident.

Nope

No.

You will just seem like a creep stalking your next murder victim.

I would advise against it, unless you're confident enough to meet new people on you're own. Even still, it'd be pretty awkward.

@ridd: @cattlebattle: @peterparkerjr: Why all the no's? Is there no optimism in this?

@errorinscript: Don't go

@errorinscript: Just don't go alone:

1. Lack of attention.

2. No way of enjoying unless you're a jerk.

3. There are big players than you there always.

4. Its a total time waste, no fun.

Well you can go if you're an insanely extreme handsome guy who would get attention anyway.

As a Dancer, I personally don't need to go with anyone to the club.

So if you're good looking, talented in ways that will get you the right attention, or just wanna have fun and don't care about the negatives.. then just go and have a good time.

@dbvse7: We'll my goal is just to try it out.

Don't get to drunk. And watch ya self. Going out is always better with a group

Clubs are one of the last places that you want to go to alone.

^

Why waste time going to a club hit the gym instead

@solid_snake97: @chris-sama: @lettsplay10:Gym does't help me with social situations, ( it doesn't increase my confidance at all) .

I never get drunk , last time I drank a lot I could not sleep. Logicaly you should be able to sleep becuase of alchohol is it not?

As for taking care of my self I have objectives and priorities so Ill be good at that too.

So overall it should be fine , as long as clubs arn't a ton more boring unlike they displayed on the media.

Don't go to clubs at all

@errorinscript: Look dude.. whoever tells you don't go to a club has either never been, doesn't know how to have fun at one, doesn't know how to conduct themselves at one, or had a bad experience that prevented THEM from going back. I went to the club in a different state (for NEW YEARS mind you) and the worst thing that happened that whole night was a drunk couple arguing. It's all about being smart and responsible.

I say try it. If you feel that a group is best go for it. Lack in confidence is the worst thing to bring to a club when you're by yourself.

I wholeheartedly disagree with people saying don't try it period... For me it's great others not so much but try it first - to be safe is there not a single person you know that'd go with you?

going alone isn't worth it

That's what I used to do more often. I'd go on my own more often than I'd go with my friends. There are new people you could meet and become friends with in the club but I think it's safer to go with your friends. At the end of the day, people you don't know are strangers and they could do something bad to you if you ain't careful so it's best to stick with your buddies.

What are your intentions? If it's just to have fun, I say going with friends are better. To meet new people, then you can go alone.

this basically..

if you with plan to have fun you more than likely will have fun. don't doubt yourself too much if you start out negative you will probably have a bad experience. hell even if you do just go to the next one until you feel comfortable.... just go with an open mind, clubs are as much fun as you make them..

It is safe, you just have to kep your wits about you. However for your first time it can be very hard to have a good time if you're going alone and you're not used to social situations.

Best way to pick up girls imo... well second to having a wingman

@errorinscript: Yea its fine. In fact if you are looking to get action, I found I do better by myself than with mates.

Is is worth going to a club?

no.

You can, as long as you know your good at socializing

Yes. I've had some pretty fun nights going out on my own. It's easy to meet people.

I would go. you might make new friends.

Yeah you gotta go with friends.

go

i've been doing the loner gig for years for all kinds of club

Go once just to see if it's right for you, and then possibly again with friends if you feel like it. I've done both, and I found I don't particularly enjoy the environment of typical clubs. That's probably the worst thing that'll come out of you going, unless you don't use your better judgement and take drinks from complete strangers and other such terrible decisions.

Post bars are where it's at... Only ever been to one but when I'm like 24 I'll do that more

There's a club if you'd like to go

you could meet somebody who really loves you

so you go, and you stand on your own

and you leave on your own

and you go home, and you cry

and you want to die

@thatguywithheadphones:

You shut your mouth

How can you say

I go about things the wrong way

I am human and I need to be loved

@juiceboks: Just like everybody else does.

@solid_snake97 said:

I'm saying this from self-experience....They are.