I HAVE GIRL PROBLEMS!!!!

okay, im a 16 year old male and have a major crush on a 19 year old female and need advice on what to do. should i ask her out or should i just get over it and be friends. I really like this girl and need help figuring out what to do. i dont want her to get ostracized or get in trouble for being with a underaged male. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!

First, wait two years, cause right now it would be a felony. 
 
Then, once you're at the right age, go ask her out

I feel bad for you, son.

You could ask her out, but depending on the age of consent wherever you are, I would say wait the however many years and stay friends just so you two don't have a constantly scrutinized relationship

Ask her out. It's pretty simple. The age of consent is sixteen, I think.

@sesquipedalophobe: It's 17 here in Texas and it varies between states from 16 - 18

Just ask her.

You're on the wrong site. You'll be wanting GiantBomb for this kind of advice.

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

Threaten to kill her if she doesn't want you It's the only way

Are you a cutie? If not than don't ask her. It could make you feel sad at the end.

Not a problem for me...

@ratman19: Where you from and what is the age of consent?

Don't go for an older girl. They get older first.

If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son....

@GrandSymbiote94: im from california and i dont know what the age of consent is here

If you really like her then ask,although it does tend to be the other way around a older boy with a younger girl but hey nothings impossible :D

Go to Giant Bomb. They have a dating advice hotline.

Gross, don't go to Giant Bomb unless you want a bunch of film snobs giving you dating advice. 
 
They'll probably recommend you watch a Wes Anderson flick with her or something.

Well, one thing. Think about if you want to be friends with this girl before you ask her out. If it doesn't work out, it could make your friendship with this girl pretty strained afterword.

Go for it. Nobody is going to care if a 16 year old male dates an older woman lol. If anybody even bothers to bring it the authorities this will be the only response:  
  

Tell her how you feel.

If you love/like her, you don't want her to go to jail.

I don't know how it is in the USA but this age difference (19 and 16) isn't that big of a deal where i live. I'd say go for it if you like her =)

@AweSam said:

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

I kind of agree with that statement... She'd get a lot of flack from her friends about you being younger and there would be a lot of jailbait comments.

Ask her.

2 whole pages without a 99 problems joke Bravo

@joshmightbe said:

2 whole pages without a 99 problems joke Bravo

Ha.

@joshmightbe said:

2 whole pages without a 99 problems joke Bravo

you missed it, i'll show you:

@NlGHTCRAWLER said:

If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son....

Go to GB. They've got the hotline and everything...

@ratman19: My best advice is that you take her out to eat then leave the intercourse part to me since you're not old enough =]

@AweSam said:

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

I know 18 year olds who dated 14 year olds...

You really think comicvine's basement dwellers can give you advice on girls? SMH. 

@HBKTimHBK said:

@AweSam said:

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

I know 18 year olds who dated 14 year olds...

18 year old girl? If so, then that's messed up. It's also really rare. Older girls almost never date younger guys.

@AweSam said:

@HBKTimHBK said:

@AweSam said:

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

I know 18 year olds who dated 14 year olds...

18 year old girl? If so, then that's messed up. It's also really rare. Older girls almost never date younger guys.

Actually, I know one of both. The one with the 18 year old guy and 14 year old girl stopped a long time ago, the 18 year old girl and 15 (Now) is still going..he's a sophomore, and she's a college freshmen.

Walk up to that chick and ask her out right on the spot.

If she says yes, than congratulations.

If she says no, then whatever. It wasn't meant to be. Especially for a chick that is older than you.

Who cares?

Don't go to GiantBomb like others are suggesting.

Instead try 4Chan or Tumblr, they normally have good advice.

Get over it. Any 19 year old girl willing to date a 16 year old guy is either ugly or not mature(or both).

Unless you're comparably maturer than your age - in which case you wouldn't be asking Comicvine for help with this problem.

I think it's better that you learn that you can't chase, or even admit your feelings to, every girl that you like. Self-control goes a long way in life.

@JonSmith said:

You're on the wrong site. You'll be wanting GiantBomb for this kind of advice.

Im sorry, But Why?

Join the party.

First off, best of luck considering that older women almost never date younger guys. Second of all, you can't be afraid to step up and get turned down. Just ask her, if she says no, shrug it off and move on. You're 16 for christ's sake.

@utotheg38: They have their own dating advice line!

@JonSmith said:

@utotheg38: They have their own dating advice line!

Link

@utotheg38: Don't need a link, I have photographic evidence.

I'm 23 and the oldest I've dated was 37. She didnt look a day over 25. I met her in college, we got along great & still hang out to this day. Although, there is something about you not being an adult that I am sure she wont be able to get over. In other words she'll put you in the friend zone. But dont let that get to you bro... plenty fish in the sea.

@JonSmith said:

@utotheg38: Don't need a link, I have photographic evidence.

Oh sh!t!!!!!!

That's Insane

@utotheg38 said:

@JonSmith said:

@utotheg38: Don't need a link, I have photographic evidence.

Oh sh!t!!!!!!

That's Insanely awesome!

Yes. Yes it is.