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@bumpyboo said:
@punyparker: Hehehe! I can certainly see the resemblance ;) But you know,some girls are really into that. They see the outer awkwardness, and the sweet guy underneath, and find it really endearing and charming. In my experience, a lot of the most confident, supposedly funny, popular guys I have dated have also been the biggest jerks. Anyone can put on an act. Takes some real stones to just be yourself :)
When you do that,and you don't come out creepy,than it's a plus,sure,and in that,let's be honest here,appearance helps......
Oh believe me, I know how much it sucks to accidentally come off as creepy! Hehe...we all mess up though in these situations. I don't trust people who don't ever make a wrong step or say the wrong thing or mess up even a little. To me, that's a red flag. You've got yourself a phoney.
And yeah, appearance helps, can't really settle down with someone you have no attraction to, that's silly. But on the other hand, I've found that someone making me laugh a lot, or being nice to me...they can make a person SO sexy. You get to know a person who is attractive on the outside but not so much inside, and over time they can become ugly to you. But I've had people become hot right in front of my eyes, based on not much more than what I feel for them, and how they make me feel about myself too.
I have suffered from "Jock steals the gal i have a crush on,and believe she deserves much more than a pair of -2 IQ points" ........so. i'm with ya there,hun.....i'm not good at advice too. :)
(you have no idea how frustrating it is to mock someone, and him not understanding the insult,cuz it's too smart for him....)
Isn't it the worst? Like wasting great insults on people who don't even understand them, and are dumb enough to not know they aren't winning -_-
I don't know. I get a lot of what you're saying. Certainly when I look at myself, I don't see anything a guy would go crazy for. But you just never know :)
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